"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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definition of a good girl

Dannyrt34

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I hear all the time you guys saying good girls don't exist, well I think I may have found out that they do exist. Like bigfoot, and barney, it could just be a rare sighting.

My girlfriend seems to have every trait of the stereotypical good girl, plus some. For one, no sex til marriage (ouch) i call her a bad girl for that one. She gives an unbelievable amount of compliments and everytime i let her choose what we do for the evening, she responds with "as long as i'm with you i'm happy.". Also, i never spent a dime on her! if i pay for something and she didn't want me to, she'd find a way to get that money back to me, usually by hiding it somewhere in my car or house. she pays for everything and told me she never wants me to get her anything or spend any money on her because she likes to spoil me. and the last thing, she will listen to everything i say, I never ask her to do anything for me, but if i simply tell her i'm hungry, she'll either have something ordered for me or be making something. Plus shes really beautiful! I don't know how it happened. and she sticks by my side even if i do let my AFCness show through.

Anyway this got me wondering, how many of you met a true 'good girl'? I want to see how common this is

(Another reason i posted this is just to brag)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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sexy_kuta

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i wouldnt call that good rather than clingy.. i rather have a relationship that makes me work too not just the girl, but if ur happy then its good,
and dont brag either, it gets u no where.
and to answer your question, what defines a good girl? only way to define is ourselves.. we can only put the value as a good girl, not every girl is good, know what im sayin? every one has standards. some ppl think no sex before marriage is good. some people think its bad. some people wouldnt even waste there time on that. the only way to define a person is the value you put in them. to me, good girl is a girl who alot of self respect and respect for others,
but of course theres more than that to it. but everyone views good girls differently, you cannot simply apply the same concept everyone has.
everyone has different tastes and standards.
 

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Dannyrt34 said:
I hear all the time you guys saying good girls don't exist, well I think I may have found out that they do exist. Like bigfoot, and barney, it could just be a rare sighting.

My girlfriend seems to have every trait of the stereotypical good girl, plus some. For one, no sex til marriage (ouch) i call her a bad girl for that one. She gives an unbelievable amount of compliments and everytime i let her choose what we do for the evening, she responds with "as long as i'm with you i'm happy.". Also, i never spent a dime on her! if i pay for something and she didn't want me to, she'd find a way to get that money back to me, usually by hiding it somewhere in my car or house. she pays for everything and told me she never wants me to get her anything or spend any money on her because she likes to spoil me. and the last thing, she will listen to everything i say, I never ask her to do anything for me, but if i simply tell her i'm hungry, she'll either have something ordered for me or be making something. Plus shes really beautiful! I don't know how it happened. and she sticks by my side even if i do let my AFCness show through.

Anyway this got me wondering, how many of you met a true 'good girl'? I want to see how common this is

(Another reason i posted this is just to brag)

They are out there bro. And even though I like sex...girls that are like this are keepers dude (can be an AFC and they don't care, non gold diggers, easy to please, loyal, parent pleaser, etc), real LTR material. You can actually bring these chicks home to mom. These are the girls worth settling down with if you get to that stage. If a girl is more into you than you are her, thats when things are smooth going.
 

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Thats awesome...if she's not being fake about it, and just trying to please you for now. Not making accusations, but I dont trust people that are too nice like that. She may not be showing you her true colors. Personnally, I like to know who they are for real, good or bad from the start. She may be perfect now, but she may be another person when the ring is on.
Do your best to find out who she really is, before making commitments. Maybe she really is that good. They are out there and good for you if you found one. How was her relationship with her dad? How are or were her parents together? That gives a clear indication of how she is. Good luck on that either way, dont fukk it up if she is for real.
 

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Dannyrt34 said:
(Another reason i posted this is just to brag)
Then, I can't wait for the followup post "My gf is a lying wh@rre" haha

Whenever a girl says no sex til marriage, it's a load of bs.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Whenever a girl says no sex til marriage, it's a load of bs.
Agreed.

Also, I just don't get the point of a girlfriend if you can't bang her.
 
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