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Source: UrbanDictionary.com
Game
1 : discourse marked by force and persuasiveness, either with women or in any situation to get what one wants; also : the art or power of using such discourse
2 : the quality of forceful or persuasive expressiveness
Game is something you possess. You either have Game or you don't. Like zen, Game is undefinable. Like zen, when you see Game in person, you know it subconsciously, and, like zen, Game is always changing and evolving, depending on the situation, circumstance, or individual. Like a moth to a flame, women are irresistibly attracted to those who possess Game. A good Game sends a sure signal to a woman that a man understands her uniquely feminine energy and is not overpowered by its beauty but rather empowered by it.
To gain a proper understanding of an effective Game, we must make a distinction between two facets of Game:
1) Inner Game
Like everything else, the Game starts in your own mind. Those with minds that are strong, brave, humorous, confident, and trustworthy tend to possess the gift of Game. Those with minds that are weak, passive, boring, apologetic, and ambivalent tend to lack Game. Having a solid Inner Game provides the confidence to ask out the girl of you're dreams and the composure to charm her once your on the date.
2) Outer Game
The Outer Game is comprised of the methods, tactics, and otherwise external displays that originate from the Inner Game. Outer Game can be expressed in many forms: canned lines and routines, ******d appearances, mind games, body language, and a general ability to entertain and build the trust. But the problem most men have when it comes to women is that they are looking on this ******d Game level for solutions to their inner problems.
The media is constantly bombarding us with new 'must-have' male beauty products. On television, characters often implement 'pick-up' lines and other canned material to get the girl with an unnaturally high rate of success. The sad truth is that it has gotten to the point where men are lying about themselves in order to create the appearance of more wealth or more attractiveness than they actually possess. In general, if you ever have to lie to impress a girl, she is not worth the effort. Take it from someone who has been there: becoming the person of your dreams and then having women fall in love with the real you is far more gratifying than pretending you are a Hollywood film producer or a magician. Be real, otherwise you risk setting yourself up for a hard fall once she stops fantasizing about the man she thinks you are.
Although Outer Game can be faked, it is directly related to Inner Game, which is impossible to counterfeit. Poor Outer Game is a symptom of a need for improvement of your Inner Game. Unlike what is depicted on television, repairing your Inner Game involves a bit more than memorizing a few scripts and routines, which is why many frustrated men focus their attention ******d.
Women instinctively pick up on such fraudulent representations of good Game. Even if you memorize all the best material and watch some of the best pick-up artists in the world, you won't have a thimble's chance of getting the girl if you lack the confidence and masculine energy required to keep, or even hold hands with, the woman of your dreams. Women can detect low self-esteem even more quickly than they sniff out fake Game.
Do not be misled, as it may still be helpful for clueless beginners to memorize canned material. Using the canned stuff provides a good base while you work to attain the positive and negative feedback necessary to learn how good Game sounds. Eventually, however, in order to hook that girl of your dreams, you must change your bait from routines and cute mental puzzles for a consistent, integrated personality that becomes a genuine part of yourself. Real men are unavailable. They are forging a new business, fighting fires, or climbing mountains. Only boys are going out every night trying to lay every modestly-attractive girl who will bite at some cheap bait.
Source: UrbanDictionary.com
Game
1 : discourse marked by force and persuasiveness, either with women or in any situation to get what one wants; also : the art or power of using such discourse
2 : the quality of forceful or persuasive expressiveness
Game is something you possess. You either have Game or you don't. Like zen, Game is undefinable. Like zen, when you see Game in person, you know it subconsciously, and, like zen, Game is always changing and evolving, depending on the situation, circumstance, or individual. Like a moth to a flame, women are irresistibly attracted to those who possess Game. A good Game sends a sure signal to a woman that a man understands her uniquely feminine energy and is not overpowered by its beauty but rather empowered by it.
To gain a proper understanding of an effective Game, we must make a distinction between two facets of Game:
1) Inner Game
Like everything else, the Game starts in your own mind. Those with minds that are strong, brave, humorous, confident, and trustworthy tend to possess the gift of Game. Those with minds that are weak, passive, boring, apologetic, and ambivalent tend to lack Game. Having a solid Inner Game provides the confidence to ask out the girl of you're dreams and the composure to charm her once your on the date.
2) Outer Game
The Outer Game is comprised of the methods, tactics, and otherwise external displays that originate from the Inner Game. Outer Game can be expressed in many forms: canned lines and routines, ******d appearances, mind games, body language, and a general ability to entertain and build the trust. But the problem most men have when it comes to women is that they are looking on this ******d Game level for solutions to their inner problems.
The media is constantly bombarding us with new 'must-have' male beauty products. On television, characters often implement 'pick-up' lines and other canned material to get the girl with an unnaturally high rate of success. The sad truth is that it has gotten to the point where men are lying about themselves in order to create the appearance of more wealth or more attractiveness than they actually possess. In general, if you ever have to lie to impress a girl, she is not worth the effort. Take it from someone who has been there: becoming the person of your dreams and then having women fall in love with the real you is far more gratifying than pretending you are a Hollywood film producer or a magician. Be real, otherwise you risk setting yourself up for a hard fall once she stops fantasizing about the man she thinks you are.
Although Outer Game can be faked, it is directly related to Inner Game, which is impossible to counterfeit. Poor Outer Game is a symptom of a need for improvement of your Inner Game. Unlike what is depicted on television, repairing your Inner Game involves a bit more than memorizing a few scripts and routines, which is why many frustrated men focus their attention ******d.
Women instinctively pick up on such fraudulent representations of good Game. Even if you memorize all the best material and watch some of the best pick-up artists in the world, you won't have a thimble's chance of getting the girl if you lack the confidence and masculine energy required to keep, or even hold hands with, the woman of your dreams. Women can detect low self-esteem even more quickly than they sniff out fake Game.
Do not be misled, as it may still be helpful for clueless beginners to memorize canned material. Using the canned stuff provides a good base while you work to attain the positive and negative feedback necessary to learn how good Game sounds. Eventually, however, in order to hook that girl of your dreams, you must change your bait from routines and cute mental puzzles for a consistent, integrated personality that becomes a genuine part of yourself. Real men are unavailable. They are forging a new business, fighting fires, or climbing mountains. Only boys are going out every night trying to lay every modestly-attractive girl who will bite at some cheap bait.
- Bruce Lee