"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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TheGambino

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Value, self respect, defend yourself when attacked in life (verbal and non verbal) always avoid conflicts but never back down when someone goes to far. Be proud, family first, respect people and always be positive. When someone goes to far confront them and if they make the same mistake erase them from your life.

Kind of my rules for life teached by my mother.
 

Yorkex

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Any man that can live without a woman.


Face it , we buy big houses, cars and toys to impress WOMEN ! If a guy can get posssy for life , while living in a shoe box but he still has free food , access to basic cable sports channel & hanging/ doing things he enjoys with the boys ...he wouldn't give a DAMNN about all the extra stuff.
 

LuckyStrike88

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A man that puts himself and his life first. Likes woman but will even disregard the hottest women if it means putting his self aside. Self respect and own life above any women.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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