TheException
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*Disclaimer: THIS WILL NOT BE A THREAD ADVOCATING CHUMP MALE PU$$IFICATION, MEN ACTING LIKE WOMEN, MEN ACTING NEEDY, FAIRYTALE STORIES, FINDING THE "ONE", OR ANY OTHER CHUMP SH1T.
ALL POSITIVE MALE CHARACTERISTICS THAT WE DISCUSS ON SOSUAVE....STILL APPLY.
Good.....got that out of the way. Sad isnt it when one has to even make a disclaimer.....but I can see comments coming immediately from people who probably wont even read the thread....but just see the title. I think this will be an important topic and dont want it ruined by the uneducated or the "strictly polygamous drones". Lets get into the good stuff....
What is the male biological imperative? Quoted from my good friend wikipedia for those of you who dont know: "Biological imperatives are the needs of living organisms as required to perpetuate their existence. It is possible to define the following hierarchy of biological imperatives for a living organism: survival, territorialism, competition, reproduction, quality of life-seeking, and group forming."Simply put....its the reason for our main existence.
Example Time: Lets say there was a new video game that was titled "Life". You would create a character and live their life on earth. During the creation step....there is one slot and ONE SLOT ONLY....for a single attribute. What do you give him? There is only one correct answer and that ought to be "adaptability". Being able to survive, reproduce, etc under any and all circumstances. Being able to change himself in order to fulfill the imperative. So now lets apply this to real life. The video game is actually "your life on earth" and the character is actually "you". Do yourself a favor and learn to become adaptable. Your skill set doesnt earn a good living? Learn a new skill. You dont like the way you get tired from walking up a flight of stairs? Exercise. You have high blood pressure and cholesterol? Eat better. For every problem....there is a solution. Your ability to find the solution to a problem is paramount to your success.
Lets talk about modern society and how monogamy applies. Monogamy is the clear cut optimal situation to raise a family. Its indisputable. Read the needs that need to be fulfilled under the imperative again and think about monogamy. They all apply.
-Survival: More individual than family, but being able to live long term in order to aid the family unit.
-Territorialism: Defending your family.
-Competition: Finding the best mate.
-Reproduction: The most obvious. Having kids with a wife.
-Quality of Life Seeking: Seeking to make your children's life better than your own and to make money to which you can pass down.
All of the imperatives needs can be fulfilled through monogamy if done correctly. So, the drones who go on and on about how monogamy "sucks", "its for women only", "it screws the man", etc.....have it wrong. Period.
Below I list my tips for success.
1. SCREEN THE SH1T OUT OF WOMEN
Any member who uses blanket statement like "all women are selfish", "all women are evil", "all women are low quality", "all women are wh0res" automatically discredit themselves of any opinion of worth on women. There are HIGH QUALITY and LOW QUALITY women. Sure....maybe its 75% low quality or even 80%. But its not some "needle in the haystack" to find a high quality female. Its is YOUR JOB to find one. Dont hide your troubles in doing so behind false rhetoric. Want to know what helps when it comes to finding high quality women? BEING HIGH QUALITY YOURSELF. This is the first step in going from chump ----> alpha. People often skip this step and try to find high quality women, but get butthurt when they are not interested.
Once you build yourself up as a man and actually start getting interest back from women....it will soon flip. Now you will be the one that gets to choose instead of being the poor nice guy who is one of 2 who is pining for the attention of 1 female. When dating be sure to notice good behavior vs bad behavior frequency. Is she someone you actually enjoy spending time with or do you just hang out for the sex? You must be able to weigh the good and bad qualities effectively. I guarantee you.....once you get to a certain point in your life, where everything is positive you will just attract women with your persona. Looks wont even be a major factor anymore because you will only deal with hot women. This will allow you to judge the other qualities rationally.
2. COMING TO TERMS WITH CRAVING VARIETY
Men crave variety. We want to have sex with lots of women. When you enter a relationship....they dont go away. In the past, there was never before a stable family unit like there is in today's society. Im not talking about the high divorce rates or anything...im talking about the concept. Our bodies are built for the past. But we can adapt if we want to. Just become aware that the cravings are there. Dont actually jump at the opportunity and cheat. If your cravings are ever so out of control that you can no longer contain yourself.....1.)Grow some damn willpower or 2.)Dump your girlfriend. Dont be a cheater.
3.STOP LISTENING TO BAD ADVICE
If you come to this site and throw your lot in with the wrong people.....your setting yourself up for failure. Its up to you(just like screening) to tell, which members are a positive influence on your character and which members will drag you down to their level of misery. If PlayHerMan wants to post a bunch of videos and say "SEE....women are bad, so just use them for sex and nothing more"....hes free to do so. But do any of you....honestly....want to be like that? Be that negative? The viewpoints arent even based in fact which is why you will never hear an intelligent discussion in his threads.....just more negativity and personal attacks. At the end of the day its "every man for themself" and I wont fight to the death to persuade individuals to a more positive light.....but its up to you folks to realize there IS good...positive advice here that will make you much better with women. Its your job to find that advice and internalize it.
4. THE NEW CASANOVA - THE ALPHA DAD
Becoming an alpha dad some day is highly motivating for me. I look around and see kids that are spoiled, undisciplined, pathetic, rude, lazy, entitled and just think about how sh1tty their parents must have been. I look forward some day to giving my children REAL values and having them grow up to be productive members of society.....all while still getting pu$$y on a consistent basis from a hot wife. I think there are a lot of positive things people can do with their lives.....becoming that father figure that can really influence other human beings and provide them with the tools to grow up and become successful themselves....has to be one of the greatest accomplishments in life.
ALL POSITIVE MALE CHARACTERISTICS THAT WE DISCUSS ON SOSUAVE....STILL APPLY.
Good.....got that out of the way. Sad isnt it when one has to even make a disclaimer.....but I can see comments coming immediately from people who probably wont even read the thread....but just see the title. I think this will be an important topic and dont want it ruined by the uneducated or the "strictly polygamous drones". Lets get into the good stuff....
What is the male biological imperative? Quoted from my good friend wikipedia for those of you who dont know: "Biological imperatives are the needs of living organisms as required to perpetuate their existence. It is possible to define the following hierarchy of biological imperatives for a living organism: survival, territorialism, competition, reproduction, quality of life-seeking, and group forming."Simply put....its the reason for our main existence.
Example Time: Lets say there was a new video game that was titled "Life". You would create a character and live their life on earth. During the creation step....there is one slot and ONE SLOT ONLY....for a single attribute. What do you give him? There is only one correct answer and that ought to be "adaptability". Being able to survive, reproduce, etc under any and all circumstances. Being able to change himself in order to fulfill the imperative. So now lets apply this to real life. The video game is actually "your life on earth" and the character is actually "you". Do yourself a favor and learn to become adaptable. Your skill set doesnt earn a good living? Learn a new skill. You dont like the way you get tired from walking up a flight of stairs? Exercise. You have high blood pressure and cholesterol? Eat better. For every problem....there is a solution. Your ability to find the solution to a problem is paramount to your success.
Lets talk about modern society and how monogamy applies. Monogamy is the clear cut optimal situation to raise a family. Its indisputable. Read the needs that need to be fulfilled under the imperative again and think about monogamy. They all apply.
-Survival: More individual than family, but being able to live long term in order to aid the family unit.
-Territorialism: Defending your family.
-Competition: Finding the best mate.
-Reproduction: The most obvious. Having kids with a wife.
-Quality of Life Seeking: Seeking to make your children's life better than your own and to make money to which you can pass down.
All of the imperatives needs can be fulfilled through monogamy if done correctly. So, the drones who go on and on about how monogamy "sucks", "its for women only", "it screws the man", etc.....have it wrong. Period.
Below I list my tips for success.
1. SCREEN THE SH1T OUT OF WOMEN
Any member who uses blanket statement like "all women are selfish", "all women are evil", "all women are low quality", "all women are wh0res" automatically discredit themselves of any opinion of worth on women. There are HIGH QUALITY and LOW QUALITY women. Sure....maybe its 75% low quality or even 80%. But its not some "needle in the haystack" to find a high quality female. Its is YOUR JOB to find one. Dont hide your troubles in doing so behind false rhetoric. Want to know what helps when it comes to finding high quality women? BEING HIGH QUALITY YOURSELF. This is the first step in going from chump ----> alpha. People often skip this step and try to find high quality women, but get butthurt when they are not interested.
Once you build yourself up as a man and actually start getting interest back from women....it will soon flip. Now you will be the one that gets to choose instead of being the poor nice guy who is one of 2 who is pining for the attention of 1 female. When dating be sure to notice good behavior vs bad behavior frequency. Is she someone you actually enjoy spending time with or do you just hang out for the sex? You must be able to weigh the good and bad qualities effectively. I guarantee you.....once you get to a certain point in your life, where everything is positive you will just attract women with your persona. Looks wont even be a major factor anymore because you will only deal with hot women. This will allow you to judge the other qualities rationally.
2. COMING TO TERMS WITH CRAVING VARIETY
Men crave variety. We want to have sex with lots of women. When you enter a relationship....they dont go away. In the past, there was never before a stable family unit like there is in today's society. Im not talking about the high divorce rates or anything...im talking about the concept. Our bodies are built for the past. But we can adapt if we want to. Just become aware that the cravings are there. Dont actually jump at the opportunity and cheat. If your cravings are ever so out of control that you can no longer contain yourself.....1.)Grow some damn willpower or 2.)Dump your girlfriend. Dont be a cheater.
3.STOP LISTENING TO BAD ADVICE
If you come to this site and throw your lot in with the wrong people.....your setting yourself up for failure. Its up to you(just like screening) to tell, which members are a positive influence on your character and which members will drag you down to their level of misery. If PlayHerMan wants to post a bunch of videos and say "SEE....women are bad, so just use them for sex and nothing more"....hes free to do so. But do any of you....honestly....want to be like that? Be that negative? The viewpoints arent even based in fact which is why you will never hear an intelligent discussion in his threads.....just more negativity and personal attacks. At the end of the day its "every man for themself" and I wont fight to the death to persuade individuals to a more positive light.....but its up to you folks to realize there IS good...positive advice here that will make you much better with women. Its your job to find that advice and internalize it.
4. THE NEW CASANOVA - THE ALPHA DAD
Becoming an alpha dad some day is highly motivating for me. I look around and see kids that are spoiled, undisciplined, pathetic, rude, lazy, entitled and just think about how sh1tty their parents must have been. I look forward some day to giving my children REAL values and having them grow up to be productive members of society.....all while still getting pu$$y on a consistent basis from a hot wife. I think there are a lot of positive things people can do with their lives.....becoming that father figure that can really influence other human beings and provide them with the tools to grow up and become successful themselves....has to be one of the greatest accomplishments in life.
