"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Default things to say.

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I was watching David DeAngelo's seminar and he talked about importance of having one default thing to say for each situation.
So as I was sitting waiting for my train at the train station, a train for some destination arrives and this asian HB9 comes out of the train, walkes by me and all I was thinking is. How the f... does one approach in this situation? What could one say to start a conversation? So guys, give me your default things to say to different situations.

Some of the situations could be, like to day, when a chicks walks out of the train, metro, tram or bus, what default thing could one say?

2. You sitting in the train and there is a cute dame somewhere near, like behind or 2 seats ahead. What to say?

3. A girl walks in you direction in the street, as you come closer and closer, what to say?

4. Two girls walks in you direction in the street. What to say?

5. You spot a chick at the mall just hanging out alone. What to say?

and so on, and so on. Give me allso your default things you usualy say!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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P.S: You're in the wrong section, DJ Tips is for posting tips, DJ Discussion is for questions.

Anyway truth is, if someone walks out of the train and is in a rush, you're unlikely to be able to approach her without following after her and therefore, look stalk-ish.

As for the rest:
2. You walk up to her, if there's an empty seat, sit down. If there isn't, stand diagonally and say the usual openers.

3. Keep Eye-contact, wink maybe and say an opener as she nears you.

4. Ditto but keep EC with the one you want to PU but open her friend.

5. Walk up to her and give a situational opener about whatever she's looking at.
 
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3. while the both of you are walking towards each other, you can appear like you are preoccupied in your own thoughts (not staring at her)..block her direction but as though you didn't do it deliberately..if she tries to flank to the left, you also make a step to the left..then she will try to step to the right, while you also appear trying to make a way for yourself...

this act will look awkwardly as though both of you are synchronising a few dance steps..., then you just look at her in the eye and jokingly/casually say,

"SHALL WE DANCE?"

she will probably respond with a weak smile...

then proceed to introduce yourself to her...
 
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