"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Default things to say.

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I was watching David DeAngelo's seminar and he talked about importance of having one default thing to say for each situation.
So as I was sitting waiting for my train at the train station, a train for some destination arrives and this asian HB9 comes out of the train, walkes by me and all I was thinking is. How the f... does one approach in this situation? What could one say to start a conversation? So guys, give me your default things to say to different situations.

Some of the situations could be, like to day, when a chicks walks out of the train, metro, tram or bus, what default thing could one say?

2. You sitting in the train and there is a cute dame somewhere near, like behind or 2 seats ahead. What to say?

3. A girl walks in you direction in the street, as you come closer and closer, what to say?

4. Two girls walks in you direction in the street. What to say?

5. You spot a chick at the mall just hanging out alone. What to say?

and so on, and so on. Give me allso your default things you usualy say!
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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P.S: You're in the wrong section, DJ Tips is for posting tips, DJ Discussion is for questions.

Anyway truth is, if someone walks out of the train and is in a rush, you're unlikely to be able to approach her without following after her and therefore, look stalk-ish.

As for the rest:
2. You walk up to her, if there's an empty seat, sit down. If there isn't, stand diagonally and say the usual openers.

3. Keep Eye-contact, wink maybe and say an opener as she nears you.

4. Ditto but keep EC with the one you want to PU but open her friend.

5. Walk up to her and give a situational opener about whatever she's looking at.
 
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3. while the both of you are walking towards each other, you can appear like you are preoccupied in your own thoughts (not staring at her)..block her direction but as though you didn't do it deliberately..if she tries to flank to the left, you also make a step to the left..then she will try to step to the right, while you also appear trying to make a way for yourself...

this act will look awkwardly as though both of you are synchronising a few dance steps..., then you just look at her in the eye and jokingly/casually say,

"SHALL WE DANCE?"

she will probably respond with a weak smile...

then proceed to introduce yourself to her...
 
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