Default response when meeting a beautiful woman?

[unorthodox]

Hi. I'm just wondering what is the default response of some of the experienced people on here when they see a beautiful woman? For example, a hot blonde is walking into the gas station while you there. What do you do? Let me know what you say, what your body language is, etc, etc..

I myself freeze, go into wossy mode. And I know they can sense that, I can see it in their body language, and their interaction from that point on. But on the other hand, if she ain't beautiful, I'm alright, even might look at her or talk to her. Hmmm. Need to work on this.

 

[Le Parisien]

There's no default "walkthrough" or "manuals" concerning human social interactions. Some people just don't get it...:yawn:

There are only guidelines, guidelines you can find in the bible for example, and on this forum.

Let me ask you this: what's the default response and attitude during an interview for a highly competitive but rewarding job position?

The answer is there's none, every person/case/time is different...

 

[Teflon_Mcgee]

Alright, I'm just bearly breaking through this (the whole reason I even come to this site).

Beginning a cold interaction with a straight up hotty always leads me to severe anxiety and I puss out.
It's been my greatest (and only real concernable) sticking point.

However, within the past 7 days I've done two CA style interactions on HOT women. Both were extremely succesful and I know exactly why........FRAME CONTROL and STATE CONTROL.

I've been putting alot of work on building a solid state of mind to work hot chicks and then actually keeping it (which is key) for the duration.

I'm not going to say anything new right here but I will testify as to the power.

I build my state around 3 major themes.
1. I AM the prize. I'm giving the opportunity to her.

2.The outcome of the interaction is irrelevant to my concerns. I don't give a crap what happens. She holds no power and no meaning for me, nor do her actions.

3.I have no idea of what physical type she goes for. I don't care. I'll assume I'm it but if I'm not, who cares. That's one fish down out of millions.

For years (Since I first found this site) I've been trying to internalize these concepts. We all know them, but to make them a tangible part of your mind and root them in your very being is extremely difficult.

To know them on the surface is USELESS. I'll repeat them as I ready myself for the kill. I'll be hyped up and ready to go. But once I cross that last covered position and move in, they float away like the meaningless WORDS they are. To know them is useless, to live them is key.

I found a new way to do it which I plan to share after I become consitantly succesful with CAing HB 9's and know for a fact my state is not temporary (I've had streaks of solid inner game before, although they've been random as opposed to created, like now.)

What do you do? Let me know what you say, what your body language is, etc, etc..

Here is where the beauty is. When you're in the correct state you won't even think about it. It's just like interacting with a girl you have no interest in with the exception that you'll naturaly have an implicit attitude of sexual interest. This will manifest in a very flirty, sexual tonality of your character. Then at that point you can start working on your game (or atleast calibration as game should come natural, assuming you're not 100% inept.)

The scenario you describe, Unorthodox, is not a matter of having good game. I have good game (well, typically not with CAs) and still can't answer your question with an articulate answer. And in reality it wouldn't matter.
Somebody could give a guy like me or you (or 99% of the people on this board) the best opener, the best routine, the best PU material in existence and it will sit there in the back of your mind as the HB walks out of the gas station and you stand there feeling the lonely sting of regret and think, "next time I'll do it, I promise...."

Anyway, good luck.

 

[unorthodox]

Well I understand what you guys are saying. Must have balls..... Here me out, I'm watching seminars by DD, and it makes a lot of sense. For example when someone is yelling at you, firing you, or whatever, most people go into a state of shock, they're shaking inside and outside, know what I'm talking about? Well, he suggest to have a "default response" to most common situations. The simpliest, someone asks you time, what do you do? What do you say, your body language, how you look at them, how you tell them, everything. So that when you get asked time you know exactly what to do. That's the simple thing, other common things are when you come across a beautiful woman.

Now you guys are suggesting have balls, don't go wuss, don't go excided. I know, I gotta do that. But, I want an idea of what to do, not what not to do. For example, you see a beautiful woman, I could think of looking her in the eye until she turns away first, but that's perhaps stupid. So I want to know what some of the accomplished DJs would do.

The idea (conveyed in the DD seminars) is that if you have a default response layed out, you won't get nervous and go into wuss mode. I'm not asking for what to say, nah. On much basic level, how to act cool without saying anything.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

There's no default "walkthrough" or "manuals" concerning human social interactions. Some people just don't get it...:yawn: ...

Hey LP, are you inviting these "manual readers" into the forum or what? How the hell do you keep finding them?

 

[Sosa]

try a simple hello- and work on your self confidence

 

[KillaCam]

The default response is the exact response you would give anyone else. She is no different.

 

[DarkLight]

For years (Since I first found this site) I've been trying to internalize these concepts. We all know them, but to make them a tangible part of your mind and root them in your very being is extremely difficult.

To know them on the surface is USELESS. I'll repeat them as I ready myself for the kill. I'll be hyped up and ready to go. But once I cross that last covered position and move in, they float away like the meaningless WORDS they are. To know them is useless, to live them is key.

I found a new way to do it which I plan to share after I become consitantly succesful with CAing HB 9's and know for a fact my state is not temporary (I've had streaks of solid inner game before, although they've been random as opposed to created, like now.)

Yo... I wrote a thread about this process in the tips section.
Its a little wordy, but in that you already have some teeth into this "act" you might appreciate and understand it better.

Its called...... [thread=101612]The Sorcery of Becoming[/thread]

Meditational Encoding.

 

[Nexxus]

well if I say hi, so will she basically...