"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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http://www.defjambook.com

I reccommend this book becuase these two guys changed pop culture forever. They are Men Going Their Own Way.

They did not care what society, women, "white america", and "black america" thougt about hip hop culture. They went ahead and did it anyway because they LOVED it. Now Russell is on the verge of being a billionaire and Rick Rubin is still ahead of his time musically. Listen to Jay-Z's "99 Problems"; "I got 99 problems but a ***** ain't ONE".




PEACE!!
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I thought Russell was already a billionaire :p

anyways ill check out the site when i get some time.
 

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He is. Russell Simmons is amazing. Def Jam is the biggest rap company in the world. You do know that Def Jam also does comedy.
 

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Funny how a billionaire, is always pulling the race card every chance he gets. I'm all for success stories, but RS isn't getting a dime from me-- the guy is scum in my book!
 

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How is he always pulling the race card???
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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He and rick are the ****. They came from nothing to owning an entire genre of the music industry, plus add Rick Rubins gerne bending production skills.......

I've noticed a poor little white man, cant get a break theme lately in our society. At work, here, and on the radio..... Just a new form of victimization. Normally blacks are accused of having such an attitude. Now, its middle aged middle class men that I've onserved sharing this same cant get nothing for free 'tude. Work hard make your own nut and shut the **** up.
 

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Save that ****. I never said that minorities do not have a chance to achieve. My father is living proof, so are my uncles and aunts. Your views are all theory: I live, breath, and sh*t this sh*t

I already know all about Elders view on such subjects because during my talk radio conservative days, I read his book"the 10 things you cant say in America." My views are already enlightened
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Funny how you cant give us an example of him pulling the race card. Then u try to mention Elder as a wake up call to the colored ppl. Give me a break.... If He's ****tty show us how..

WHATEVA-:rolleyes:
 
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