i have a deep voice that just blends in with any noise thats going on and makes me impossible to hear. I am fine in one on one conversations but the more people the harder it is to conversate. .. in conversations i am usually interupted or asked to repeat myself. Anyway enough whining, i was just wondering if anyone else has this problem and how they deal with it. Should i just start yelling at everyone i talk to in group conversations, because my voice kind of gives off a monotone deep boring sound.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Work on your tonality. Smoothen it out, and project more. It may be a good idea for you to get a voice recorder to listen to yourself. The voice recorder is also good for recording sarges. You can listen to yourself after the fact and see what you need work on.
PlayerSupreme
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Yeah I did. What you gotta do is project more at your audience. Whether it's one person or 1,000 you gotta learn to use your stomach and project your voice into them.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
duke007
Master Don Juan
Yep PlayerSupreme is right, it's all about projecting from your stomach.
I used to have this problem (and sometimes still do), and found that Mr Fingers' post on voice exercises helped me out a bit.
Also, if you feel outgoing and enthusiastic about whatever you are talking about, it will tend to show through in your voice.
High testosterone levels are reasonably important too. After a workout, my voice feels good, but after say masturbating.....my voice is still deep, but weak at the same time. Anyone else find this?
I used to have this problem (and sometimes still do), and found that Mr Fingers' post on voice exercises helped me out a bit.
Also, if you feel outgoing and enthusiastic about whatever you are talking about, it will tend to show through in your voice.
High testosterone levels are reasonably important too. After a workout, my voice feels good, but after say masturbating.....my voice is still deep, but weak at the same time. Anyone else find this?
You have to talk louder. I have the same problem with the deep voice.
If I talk loud enough, it looks like I am acting superior to my boss. If I try to change tonality I come off unconfident.
Gotta get that tape recorder I guess...
If I talk loud enough, it looks like I am acting superior to my boss. If I try to change tonality I come off unconfident.
Gotta get that tape recorder I guess...
PlayerSupreme
Banned
LOL. NO but maybe you shouldn't be wacking off so much and stop screaming my name when you cumm...lol.
duke007
Master Don Juan
Ugghh yuck
jbbrain
Master Don Juan
What!!!?!?!?!?!Hahahahahahahahaha!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Lol wtf dude...not really: I'm too out of breath to be talking to anyone after i whack off...hahaha
duke007
Master Don Juan
I've had phone calls and people knocking on the door straight after I'm done on some occasions. 