You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Inlove said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
how do you act like a DJ? good question.Inlove said:
You should write a book dude i will be the first to buy haha.void957 said:
Inlove said:You should write a book dude i will be the first to buy haha.
I dont know much about body language to be honest would really appreciate your help in this..
About my eye i look at women hehe but then look away quickly when they look at me and sometime if i am really into her i will keep looking like what happend This morning went to tesco and i was shopping there was a beautifull kinda latina looking women and i was looking at her without gazing away and she winked at me :woo: boy that feeling and then i didnt had courage to go and speak with her :nervous: do you know why she winked at me? And she had baby hmmmm.
And why i am allways attracted to certain girls like latina... Just love latinas more then anything hehe
Edit: Just finished watching Joshua Pellicers video wow that was amazing and yes i am walking the wrong way haha so what happens if people hit you with there shoulder and i hate that makes me very angry... As in the video you may notice few people hit his shoulder while he was walking the bad ass way.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I know what you mean,The second reason for i cant approach them is i dont know what to say to them and i cant make them laugh or anyone else i just dont know how.void957 said:If they hit your shoulder it doesnt matter, make sure ure always looking forward to your destination, and never change your path, if you do then youre part of the percentage of people that conform to society
When you do see a hot girl, lose yourself. First think as to why u shouldnt approach bc it will happen one way or another, but then think of every reason you should approach. It is not a big deal! think to yourself "what if tomorrow im in my deathbed and im still regrettting the fact that i did not approach that girl". Which feeling is worse? pain of regret is worse than rejection. Plus whats the big deal, she rejects you and what? you just move on to the next girl, she aint the only girl in the world.
Listen to the song 'lose yourself' by eminem before you approach. He talks about missing an opportunity you can only take once in a lifetime, and how you shouldnt miss it.
True DJs never take a situation for granted, they see one and SEIZE IT, because they know that they might never get it again. Plus no one is going to remember you approaching a girl 100 years from now, no one gives a ****. and all the guys that see you will think youre a boss. I mean if you see aguy approaching a hot girl what are u going to think of him , "oh what an *******", or "man that guy is on top of his game, i should be more like him" !/
everyone will think like that of you.
