"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I am not trying to gain weight, I am only trying to gain power, if anything, I might wanna lose weight... go back to 150 or if I do gain weight, I want it to be all muscle, so I'm not holding my breath.

Also, I am scared ****less of deadlifts because my back isn't that strong to start with, so I don't plan on doing that until I am well into my program (a few months), I decided not to do squats because I played basketball and I plan on playing a lot this summer, also I rollerblade a lot, so I think that's ok that I don't train my legs, maybe at the end of the summer if I feel unbalanced.
 
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dee-Zy said:
Also, I am scared ****less of deadlifts because my back isn't that strong to start with,
Well, you could start with a real low weight, even the unloaded bar if necessery (sp), it's what I did, to get form right.
 

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wide grip pull downs: 100lbs x10 x7 x6
cable rows: 90lbs x9 x8 x7
db rows: 35lbs x10 x9 x8
straight arm push downs: 40lbs x12 50lbs x8 x6
lower back extensions: x15 x12 x10

ball sit ups: x20 x15 x15
floor sit ups: x20 x20 x15


and about 1h of rollerblades, not intensive though.
 
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db press: 60lbs x10 x8 x4
incline bench: 20lbs x7 x6 x5
incline db: 35lbs x7 x8 x7

db curls: 25lbs x12 x8 x8
seated curls: 20lbs x8 x8 x7


hopefully I will finish my abs at home and not lazy off the rest of the night.


and 1h30 of rollerblades.



side set ups: x20 x20 x20 x20

meh, better than nothing.
 
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db shoulders press 40lbs x10 x9 x8
db raises 20lbs x8 x7 x6
reverse machine flys 80lbs x9 x8 x7

tri extensions 25lbs x8 x6 x5
cable pulldowns 40lbs x8 x7 x6

bench leg raises: x20 x15 x15
seated leg crunches: x20 x20 x20
knee raises: 25lbs x 8 x7 x6


damn no wonder the db shoulders press felt light, I did 45 earlier this week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lat pulldowns: 100lbs x9 x8 x7
seated cable rows: 100lbs x8 x7 x6
db rows: 40lbs x8 x6 x6
straight arm pulldowns: 50lbs x8 x7 x6

db side crunches: 50lbs x10 x8 x7
ball scisor sit ups: x20 x15 x12
side sit ups (both sides): x20 x20 x20
 

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I started to get lazy when I didn't work out the day before yesterday, then yesterday I got ****ing sick :mad:

Hopefully, I can work out tomorow and finish my week.

May 24th
1h30 of rollerblade.
 

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I started to get lazy when I didn't work out the day before yesterday, then yesterday I got ****ing sick :mad:

Hopefully, I can work out tomorow and finish my week.

May 24th
1h30 of rollerblade.


crap, it's been 2 weeks I didn't work out. I'm still a little sick, but I need to get off my ass and work out. I 've been rollerblading almost every 3 day or so though... 1h 2 days ago and same 3 days ago.


db press 70lbs x6 65lbs x6 x4
incline 20lbs x9 x8 x7
incline db 35lbs x6 x6 x7

bench leg raises x20 x20 x18
seated leg crunch x20 x18 x15
 
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db shoulders press 45lbs x8 x7 x6
db raises 20 lbs x9 x8 x7
bb raises 60 lbs x 8 x9 x8
reverse machine flys 90lbs x8 x7 x5

db tri ext 25lbs x8 x6 x4
db cable pulldowns 45lbs x10 x9 x7

sit ups x25 x21 x18
ball sit ups x12 x12 x12
 

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lat pulldowns 100lbs x9 x8 x7
seated cable rows: 100lbs x9 x6 x5
db rows: 40lbs x9 x8 x6

bench leg raises: x21 x18 x16
seated leg crunches: x21 x20 x20

db curls: 25lbs x10 x8 x7
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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