"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dedicated to everyone potential DJ.

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*Payne* - Please move to the appropriate place, the tips section please and thank you. -Payne

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Alright this thread is dedicated to all the Guys, and Girls, who are hooking up, or just trying out new game plans.

It basically all comes down to this, Confidence, and most of all, The way you portray yourself, If you are confident, and DO NOT show it, then you are going to to beat the meat, If you are not confident, but DO show it, you may get lucky, but you also might also go home alone and fine yourself with a bottle of vasoline.

How can you portray yourself, as being confident, and be confident.

Step one, try talking to yourself in the mirror, watch yourself as you say what you want to show, if it appears you show no interest in the girl, then you could possibly get her, depending on your game plan.

Step to, try and make yourself look good. Or at least half decent. And don't forget to put your pants on before you step out that door as well. I have been helping the Almighty Docs here and there and he is pretty hot, but what he lacks, is self confidence. How can he gain self confidence, easy, start of on the low HB scale and work your way up as everyone else has. And don't try and show yourself as a nice guy, try to play into her life, slowly, show a little interest, then don't, it will send a mixed message to her. This will get the subconcious part of the brain thinking, "Is he into me, or is he not." You can usually tell by the way she acts, if you feel like she is slipping out of your control, take control, but don't make it too obvious.

Here is an example of a bad way to break the ice.

Guy: "Hey baby your ****in smokin hot. Can I buy you a drink?"
Girl: "You can buy me the drink, but you can **** the hell off!"

Oh that would hurt, and burn all of your confidence.

The proper approach.

Guy: "Hey I noticed you were alone, mind if I join you." Buy two drinks, and offer one to her.
What do you think might happen, she may take the drink, and you have her under your control.

She walks away. If she does, then find another mark.

If she takes it, continue on like so....

Guy: "The name is ______. What do you normally drink."
Girl: "I like _____."
Guy: Orders 4 of the drink she likes, offer her 2 of the four. Then say something along these lines. "I bet you I can empty both of my glasses before you can."

Take both in your hands, and down one, take the other and pour smoothly into her drink. Guaranteed she will be slightly surprised, You still have the upper hand, Tell her she has to finish her drinks off.

This of course is the bar approach. If you know a few magic tricks, like the beer on the wall, or, the slip through two bottles, you can robably win a few drinks, and walk out with the girl if not, improvize, Make yourself more mysterious and seem alot better than any other guy.

The mall approach.

You are "shopping" by yourself, and you notice a nice HB7 walk into a store alone, walk in casually, and find her, walk up to her and briefly explain that you are new to town, and your buddy had to go, You are a little lost, and if she didn't mind helping you shop. (Make something up like you are shopping for a sister or w/e, tell her that she is about her size and ask her for help)
She should, (If she is nice) Either point to a help center, or she won't mind you tagging along, walk around with her, talk to each other, make yourself seem superiour to anyother man there, go into a few female Lingere shops, and pick out a few things, and then ask her if she wants to catch something to eat. Little does she know, you have her around you finger, if she goes, if not and says she has to run, let her go, and don't forget to close it with something like this

Guy: "Don't take off just yet, I might need your help again, so give me your number and I will call you"

If she give you number sweet deal you are good to go, if not **** happens. You look for another mark to practice on. Remember Practice makes perfect. And you won't be perfect overnight, You're going to score big some days, and really crash and burn the next.

If you get her hooked, throw in some of your own moves, have fun, and she ****s off, don't take it personal, she may actually have to go. and practice makes perfect.

But if anyone, has anything else they would like to add. Please do so, and I will give my advice, Ask the Almightly Docs himself, I am really good and picking up girls.

Payne
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't have self confidence problems, sheesh. I'm just not as creative as you *sigh*.

But I can only agree, you can only try and hope for the best.

Good thread though.
 

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I try :) and even I the great, fail sometimes, Who doesn't not *every* girl is interested.

Payne
 
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