Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
another thread here posted something about this being the most obese generation in history.
the money's with the fattys this century.
the money's with the fattys this century.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm also going to some girls house to drink wine and eat pizza from 6pm tomorrow.
I only bang fat chicks when they are easy slvts, not worth my time or attention otherwise. I can't imagine the men in those clubs go there for any other purpose
its because women are pedestalised by internet and social/dating media. and men are orbiting online cuz why notThough actually this gives you another interesting gender dynamic: fat girls can get skinny/fit guys easily. 3/4 of girls there are fat, and 1/4 of guys...and you can bet those 3/4 of girls are still pulling whatever guy there they want.
On the flipside I can say from personal experience in the past that being a fat guy, even a fat guy with intelligence and humour...you're very, very unlikely to sleep with a slim, athletic woman anytime soon. Or any woman. Or even get a kiss.
Took me 4 years of busting my arse in a gym before I could even get a girl to kiss me. Nothing about my personality changed. I've never heard of a fat girl who's gone that long without even a glance from a man.
Not ranting at the girls or blaming them for getting what they want, it just frustrates me when I see some girls complain how hard the dating scene is...even when they're heavily overweight they can get sex with a fit guy pretty much whenever they click their fingers in a club.
I can be built and fairly good looking and even then I'm lucky if a chick gives me a glance in a club, I've been clubbing about 10 times and I think I had a girl dance with me once. If I was still fat, I wouldn't have a hope in Hell.
did you steal my date? I got the "im sick" fvckoff... Im in Ealing CommonI'm also going to some girls house to drink wine and eat pizza from 6pm tomorrow.
Where in London are you going?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Haha no I didn't, that sucks.did you steal my date? I got the "im sick" fvckoff... Im in Ealing Common