Chev.Chelios
Master Don Juan
another thread here posted something about this being the most obese generation in history.
the money's with the fattys this century.
the money's with the fattys this century.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I'm also going to some girls house to drink wine and eat pizza from 6pm tomorrow.
I only bang fat chicks when they are easy slvts, not worth my time or attention otherwise. I can't imagine the men in those clubs go there for any other purpose
its because women are pedestalised by internet and social/dating media. and men are orbiting online cuz why notThough actually this gives you another interesting gender dynamic: fat girls can get skinny/fit guys easily. 3/4 of girls there are fat, and 1/4 of guys...and you can bet those 3/4 of girls are still pulling whatever guy there they want.
On the flipside I can say from personal experience in the past that being a fat guy, even a fat guy with intelligence and humour...you're very, very unlikely to sleep with a slim, athletic woman anytime soon. Or any woman. Or even get a kiss.
Took me 4 years of busting my arse in a gym before I could even get a girl to kiss me. Nothing about my personality changed. I've never heard of a fat girl who's gone that long without even a glance from a man.
Not ranting at the girls or blaming them for getting what they want, it just frustrates me when I see some girls complain how hard the dating scene is...even when they're heavily overweight they can get sex with a fit guy pretty much whenever they click their fingers in a club.
I can be built and fairly good looking and even then I'm lucky if a chick gives me a glance in a club, I've been clubbing about 10 times and I think I had a girl dance with me once. If I was still fat, I wouldn't have a hope in Hell.
did you steal my date? I got the "im sick" fvckoff... Im in Ealing CommonI'm also going to some girls house to drink wine and eat pizza from 6pm tomorrow.
Where in London are you going?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Haha no I didn't, that sucks.did you steal my date? I got the "im sick" fvckoff... Im in Ealing Common