"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is kind of embarassing, but I've noticed in the past month or two i've had a harder time getting turned on, and this is awkward to say online but today I had difficult time even getting turned on enough to masturbate, so I think there's gotta be something wrong and I don't know if it will go away any time soon. So if anyone has any info that could help, that would greatly appreciated
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tmpgstx

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It could be from working out AND jacking it. Read my thread in tips called 'No longer and theory but a principal' and try this out. Lol ..it's funny because lifting weights is like good sex (or compareable to) when doing this.
 

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Could be anything,

do you smoke, overtrain, drink to much, not sleep enough, do no exercise apart from tapping keys, masturbate too much, take drugs, not eat well?
 

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dude, i wish i could trade afflictions with you. i attack my girl up to 3 times a day and i still beat off.
 
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well i don't know, is jacking off once a day too much? but now for the past 4 days i haven't even felt the urge to jack off and i won't get horny unless i make myself horny by looking at porn. and even then my boners arent as strong and i don't feel as horny as i used to. maybe it has to do with the fact that i started drinking for the first time a few days ago, but i don't know for sure because noone else seems to have that experience
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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speed dawg

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I go through stages. It's no big deal. The better shape I'm in, the more sex drive I have. I think it has alot to do with being confident with your body.
 

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I find I get reduce libido on thermos. I'm currently on an ephedrine/caffeine stack along with another herbal based fat burner...those stimulants sometimes tend to affect my sex drive. Are you on any thermos right now?

Also, I've heard from guys that being leaner (I'm talking single digits to the point where you have an 8 pack and veins in your lower abs) also causes reduced libido because your body hates being that lean...and its basically not healthy.
 
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