"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Deciphering Text Messages

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Gentlemen, we have a powerful new tool at our disposal with text messages, but perhaps not for the reason you think. When a person sends off quick messages they will reveal subtle clues about their true thoughts at the moment.

Good signs

"excited"
"!!!!"
":)"
"LOL"
"<3"

Bad signs

"gross"
"disgusting"
"blah"
"afraid"
"sorry"

Word Combinations

Once you master the individual words used by yourself and your target, you can look at the way words are grouped for even greater insight. By knowing the subtle cues to look for you can know when to reply and when to back off. Also, please let me know if you have any more info about grouping words.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I agree to some extent, but only with chicks that you are seeing and banging.

But regardless, it's important not to fall into the trap of reading anything much from messages sent by a girl you haven't banged.

And at any time, the only thing you should use as a measure of success in text messaging is to consider:

* Is your text messaging consistently getting her to meet up with you, so you can bang her brains out?

Anything else is a waste of time in my opinion.
 
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Yes, as runner83 notes, this is for understanding women you are dating for more than 2 months but who might not be exclusive, because they need to have written enough to establish a pattern in their writing to establish what the norm is.

Also, when you writing to them, be aware of your own language. There is often a better way to say something.

BAD: I'm afraid I won't get a chance to see you until tomorrow.
GOOD: Tomorrow we will be together.

The words together and "we will" are better than the words "afraid" and "won't get a chance".
 
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