"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Decided to drop the girl who I went out with

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Nothing wrong with having standards you did good there, did not waste any time on a bad match up for you
Quality men are picky
Imo you should start thinking about moving if tou are looking for a faithful ltr Some social enviroment or up bringing are just not good for finding quality women.
I'm actually going to be leaving the area sometime around a year from now, I'm not originally from here by the way.

I've had this discussion with many people in my life (family, friends my age, older friends, etc.) and many of them have even told me that they don't think that I am going to find what I am looking for in this area. I'm a high quality and respectable guy, so naturally I'm going to seek a woman that is on par with me.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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