"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Decent Opener?

SyncBoss

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Anybody ever use "Don't I know you" or "You look familiar" as an opener? If you have, has it worked out well for you?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2

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don't use the exact same opener on everyone in every situation, you should use an opener taylored to the person you're opening, they'll be much better that way, because they won't be as restricted as one size fits all ones.
 

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Thats a pick up line in my opinion. I dont use pick up lines but i think the only time that works is when you have actually met before. If you are crafty with conversations then this or almost anything can work though.

And yes use your situation and surroundings to your advantage. Like theres this girl in my class, hb7.5, and she wore a tennis shirt one day and i asked about it.
 

Maeisgood

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I saw a guy use that and the girl giggled in a flattered way, but I could tell she wasn't interested. I think seems over used, false, uncreative, and it's too obvious what you're up to. I'd only use it if its slightly true and you think there's a big chance she'll like you. If she's beaming at you and furiously playing with her hair and trying to lock eyes with you and quickly darting away then you can say whatever you want as long as you're confident.
 
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