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Looking for opinions. Her and her friends do this and none of them seem too concerned. They even try to hide his from the definitely concerned fathers, so basically facilitating the behavior.
 

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The apple doesn't fall far from the tree

They were never "Decent girls" to begin with just women who were able to adjust or pretend too.
Most women who spend perpetually long time in the hoe phase seldom break out of it
Eventually, they cheat, etc. Not saying that some don't settle down and become good housewives but there is a reason that this saying below is also somewhat true

Can't turn a hoe into a housewife

One thing that was shocking once I started dating more women in my age group (I'm in my 40s) how many women are still operating under the same 304 behavior in their 40s/50s.
 

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I had a past female friend about 50 yo. Her daughter was 19. The daughter was still dating her first bf. She was a good kid who focused on school.

The mom (friend) was trying to encourage her daughter to dump the guy and have random flings.

The mom had a wild past and was trying to steer her daughter the same way and/or live vicariously through her.

The mom was still having FWBs with different dudes.
 
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I had a past female friend about 50 yo. Her daughter was 19. The daughter was still dating her first bf. She was a good kid who focused on school.

The mom (friend) was trying to encourage her daughter to dump the guy and have random flings.

The mom had a wild past and was trying to steer her daughter the same way and/or live vicariously through her.
I have come across similar. It's like some of these women want to screw it up for their daughters.
 

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I had a past female friend about 50 yo. Her daughter was 19. The daughter was still dating her first bf. She was a good kid who focused on school.

The mom (friend) was trying to encourage her daughter to dump the guy and have random flings.

The mom had a wild past and was trying to steer her daughter the same way and/or live vicariously through her.

The mom was still having FWBs with different dudes.
Imgaine being 50 and still being a thot, smh
 

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I have come across similar. It's like some of these women want to screw it up for their daughters.
I think some of these women just want to live vicariously through them and be young again
It's different being a 304 in your 20s everything feels brand new, men chasing you, taking you to fancy restaurants, trips, having sex in public, having group sex etc

By your 50s, living this type of hedonistic lifestyle, you have done it all seen it all or heard it all. Nothing is really as exciting
 

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I had a past female friend about 50 yo. Her daughter was 19. The daughter was still dating her first bf. She was a good kid who focused on school.

The mom (friend) was trying to encourage her daughter to dump the guy and have random flings.

The mom had a wild past and was trying to steer her daughter the same way and/or live vicariously through her.

The mom was still having FWBs with different dudes.
I have come across similar. It's like some of these women want to screw it up for their daughters.
Man, how disturbed does a woman has to be to encourage her decent daughter to break up with her first boyfriend just to go ride the c0ck carousel? Its like a man advising his son to be an incel, Jesus!
 

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Simple, most probable explanation:

For most people(the typical Applachian and our current POTUS aside), the very THOUGHT of your kid-especially your sweet little girl-getting piped out in every way imaginable by some dude is "icky", to say nothing of having frank discussions with them about such topics

Therefore, most folks choose to NOT do so
 

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I had a past female friend about 50 yo. Her daughter was 19. The daughter was still dating her first bf. She was a good kid who focused on school.

The mom (friend) was trying to encourage her daughter to dump the guy and have random flings.

The mom had a wild past and was trying to steer her daughter the same way and/or live vicariously through her.

The mom was still having FWBs with different dudes.
crabs in a bucket mentally. hopefully the daughter knows better. Lucky, the tide is turning. it is not cool to be promiscuous.

also, I'm sure the daughter can see from her mom's actions that being promiscuous isn't that great. having boyfriend after boyfriend. nobody who she can really rely on, etc. her mom is actually serving as a warning sign :)
 

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This will become more common as the Millennial generation starts to reach age 50. This isn't that far away as the oldest Millennials are in their early 40s now.
It's already starting to become common now with the single pool from what I've noticed that's 38+

You have women recently divorced(40s and 50s) who were in dead bedroom relationships and want to enjoy the **** buffet they didn't get to enjoy because they were married the last 10-20 years. If you're in a drought a recently 40+ divorcee is the easiest to link up with lmfao

You have women that never could settle down, I had a coffee date a couple of months ago with a 45-year-old cute redhead she claims she hasn't had a boyfriend in 15 years. But do you think she has been celibate for 15 years? heck no

You have a lot of women once they get 45+ who don't want a relationship or want a relationship on their terms but not finding it cause they asking for to much ala a sports player who is washed and wants one last contract

Personally If I'm going to date a thot I prefer a girl mid 20s or early 30s at least they still have an optimistic outlook on life, which reminds me I gotta text this hottie back
 

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Looking for opinions. Her and her friends do this and none of them seem too concerned. They even try to hide his from the definitely concerned fathers, so basically facilitating the behavior.
This is a fundamental basic covenant. They all operate on the same biological responses. Women know that they are basically powerless to their intimate driven biology.

If her daughter is exposed as a 304, it’s the same as her being exposed as a 304. This should be easy to understand. It’s been going on since the dawn of time. At times she will live vicariously through her daughter’s life.
 

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I simply learned to observe the family, parents, uncles and aunts, grandparents, cousins, etc, of my potential partner, rather than focusing too much on them alone.
Tight-knit families who do things together, who are active, who take care of themselves and one another, adventurous, kind, down-to-earth, and decent people.
Your partner will be a reflection of them.
It’s the whole picture that matters.

(think that not like a single person but like a soccer team)
 

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For most people, the very THOUGHT of your kid-especially your sweet little girl-getting piped out in every way imaginable by some dude is "icky", to say nothing of having frank discussions with them about such topics

Therefore, most folks choose to NOT do so
I think it's important to think about Gen X mothers (born 1965-1980) and their Gen Z daughters (1997-2007 births for the adult Gen Z right now).

The typical Gen X mom isn't having these serious discussions about the mating environment with her Gen Z daughter. The typical Gen X mom is busy dealing with logistics of day-to-day life in child rearing, wondering if her own mediocre marriage is going to survive, and trying to stay employed in a difficult labor market right now. She doesn't have the time to think about her daughter's sex life. In the 2015-2019 economy, when the labor market was better and her daughter(s) were likely in junior high/high school., the Gen X mom was probably too busy thinking about the first two conditions (daily logistics and her own marriage/relationship life).

A common problem in the post-Sexual Revolution era is parents having serious and thoughtful discussions about the mating environment with their children.

During my formative years in the 1990s/very early 2000s, I did not think that my parents' efforts to discuss the mating environment with me were sufficient.

Gen Z has poor social skills that is interfering with their Gen Z lives. It's affecting Gen Z males more than Gen Z females but even Gen Z females are having less sex as a result of an environment with poor social skills due to newer technologies.


This will become more common as the Millennial generation starts to reach age 50. This isn't that far away as the oldest Millennials are in their early 40s now.
It's already starting to become common now with the single pool from what I've noticed that's 38+

You have women recently divorced(40s and 50s) who were in dead bedroom relationships and want to enjoy the **** buffet they didn't get to enjoy because they were married the last 10-20 years. If you're in a drought a recently 40+ divorcee is the easiest to link up with lmfao
In 2025, 38-44 year olds are early Millennials. Some early Millennial moms are getting on the market for the first time in 10+ years.

The media likes to hype childlessness in the Millennial generation. While Millennial childless has been more common, the majority of older Millennials (1981-1989 births) have children now. A lot of Millennials waited later in life to have their first child, so there are likely many 1983-1987 born women that have younger children (toddlers and early elementary school aged). Many Millennial parents have yet to have conversations about sex/mating with their younger children.

There are some earlier Millennials starting to get divorced if they married. More Millennials didn't marry in their 20s/30s as compared to Gen X and Boomers.
 

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I think it's important to think about Gen X mothers (born 1965-1980) and their Gen Z daughters (1997-2007 births for the adult Gen Z right now).
Unless one is themselves a Gen X or Gen Z woman, thinking about such things is more meritless than Woody Allen spending more than 2 minutes per week daydreaming of becoming a decorated SEAL Team 6 operator
 

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crabs in a bucket mentally. hopefully the daughter knows better. Lucky, the tide is turning. it is not cool to be promiscuous.

also, I'm sure the daughter can see from her mom's actions that being promiscuous isn't that great. having boyfriend after boyfriend. nobody who she can really rely on, etc. her mom is actually serving as a warning sign :)
Except most people only learn from their own mistakes (if they learn at all).
 

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Looking for opinions. Her and her friends do this and none of them seem too concerned. They even try to hide his from the definitely concerned fathers, so basically facilitating the behavior.
Men need to step up and grow backbones. It’s the man’s job to lovingly protect and that can mean taking tough positions on issues when needed and seemingly unpopular

Any father worth his salt sees what is going on in front of him. Hell, I was even wrong about a guy that I thought she was dating a couple weeks ago that supposedly came around the kids at the pool, but I knew of his poor character and I chased him (metaphorically) out of the nest.

You know what my ex did for the first time in 2.5 years? Let her guard down, confide in me about her relationships, including, ironically, the non-committed relationship with the close friend of whom I suspected, received and thanked advice, confided as well in some of her promiscuity, and we spoke for 90 minute and buried hatches and made mutual apologies. I also complimented her and tried to breath some self confidence into her image as an attractive woman that had options. If you asked either of us that morning if we would have had that conversation you’d more likely have bet the Israelis and the Palestinians would have built a water park

It’s also a hell of a lot easier to keep your enemies close, so to speak, with honey

push <—> pull
 
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Try to smash the daughter
 
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