"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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debating to call girl or not...need quick help!!

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So i had a party at my appartment over the weekend for my roomates bday. This girl that i never met but who i knew she was (shes a freshman and im a sophmore) came with her friends. We took some group shots of alcohol, then later i singled her out and took shots with her. I introduced myself and we talked for a while....as the night progressed i cant remember everything but i do rememebr being up against the wall and her grinding on me.

i talked to her for most of the night...got her number and everything. So i go on facebook the next day and i added her as a friend and i messaged her some joke that we joked about durin the party.

i called her later that night and we talked for 20 mins..mostly about school and stuff from back home (were both from jersey)

so i was gonna wait a few days and call her again...but i heard that she has a copy of the physics lab test from last year (we have a lab test tomorrow) and i nobody else has it (one of my friends Might have it...im waiting for his phone call)....my friends want me to call her but i dont wanna keep calling her and being up her ass...what do u all think i should do?!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So in other words, you want to call her and ask her to help you cheat on a test?

Yes, you probably shouldn't call her again already if you hope to get with her. But you should not have done a lot of things that you've done (the online BS, calling without setting a date, wtf?). I see that you've been a member for over 3 years...why is this even an issue?
 

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almost 500 posts and still an douchebag ....... priceless

lol

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dip, call her up. talk to her. you are in your own reality, not hers, stop thinking about what she will do, what she does is not your concern. She either goes along with you or not, think like a god damn sex crazed animal; if this female does not want to mate, you move on to the next one. if she starts acting flaky to you they screw her. use her for that physics thing.

if she wants to get crazy then go for it. if not, then no big deal. make sure you convey that.

good luck.
 

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Originally posted by JC Jerkson
Over 900 posts and still a noob.....priceless.

lol


JC
yeah really get a life...you havent been on the website for 2 months and you have over 500 posts

thanks for the tips guys -i dunno what got into me...ive been living off mostly hook up and one nighters only and i got soft when i found the girl that i wanted more with:rolleyes:
 

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Coz your new to this, I wouldn't talk for very long... more ooportunity to stuff things up since your taking this one as a keeper, or whatever..

read jugglers phone call stuff.. Got me started..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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