Debate about fat chicks

[CapCrunch]

Today in literature class we were discussing women and the double standars in society and some way or another the subject derived on if i would date a fatchick.

Some pretty interesting questions were brought up, so would you continue to date a chick you like alot (like ALOT) after a summer in which she got very fat?

And i do mean fat, not chubby but fat.

 

[immrtlwun]

No. If she doesn't have the will power or self motivation to stay in shape, then that might just pass on to any kids we might have together and I won't stand for having fat kids.

 

[shaunuk]

Nah of course not. I can't imagine I girl who likes me and wants to impress me would let themselves get fat unless it's due to some dodgy medical reason.

I wouldn't still be attracted to them.

 

[decades]

absolutely not. if she got fat over one summer she is a very big eater and the future is not going to be kind to her unless she getes this eating under control. Hey if this chick was hot and then got fat...just think back to when she had major hotness and run with that. your mind can work wonders bro when you use it.

 

[Bible_Belt]

The woman I married was once a 120-pound beauty queen. When we got married, she was about 130 pounds. Then over the next few years, she gained about 70 pounds. Then she cheated on me, and divorced me, even though I forgave the cheating and wanted her back. Then she gained another 20 pounds. Now she calls me all the time and wants me back. I actually went to see her about a year ago. I stayed at her place and we went to Sea World, it was fun. I like her as a person, but I am just not attracted to her. It's like laying in bed with Jabba the Hut.

My current girlfriend knows all of this, and is petrified of getting fat. She is my age and weighs less now than since she was about 19, but still worries about it. I am not so worried about her worrying about it.

 

[Warboss Alex]

When you gain a lot of weight - muscular weight included, for you guys who want to get seriously big - you are a different person in all but name. You look different, move differently, sleep differently.. it's only natural that other people may or may not like this.

My mother still goes on about me for not being 180lbs and lean, like I was in my first year of college. The "But muuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuum (Cartman-style), if I want to squat a grand I need the power belleh" argument doesn't seem to work on her. :|

 

[Da Realist]

If any person blows up over a period of a couple of months, then you need to step back and try to see what happened because either they have health problems or mental problems. Myself though, I don't like any woman that can physically pass for a sixteen year old male; as in having no chest, hips, butt, or curve.

 

[backbreaker]

No. for two reasons. first, she's fat. That should be enough. But I am extremely health conscious and simply put, someone who sits around and eats all day, bad fating food at that, would ahve nothing in common with me. A strawberry banana smoothie for me on most days is living dangerous. What am I going to have in common with someone who doesn't think anything about eating an entire pizza by themselves, doesn't know how to cut on a treadmill and is too big to fit in my jeans?

 

[synergy1]

My personality type just isn't congruent with a fat chick. Even if she isn't fat yet, we just won't mesh. Trust me, I stopped seeing a skinny girl who had the mindset...it just doesn't work. If I work hard to make myself the best I can be, if she can't take care of herself, she has nothing to offer me.

People who can't look in the mirror and judge themselves and live in a fog of lies are repugnant.