Originally posted by Skydiver43127
Actually, I believe you're talking about 2 different things here.
One is knowledge. Knowledge is fundamentally good. Using knowledge is alsoo allright. I like knowledge.
But the other is self-identification. Lifestyle. Knowing math does not turn you into a geek. Thinking and talking about math 24/7 turns you into a geek. Spending whole nights on practicing math also does. The same is with dating (by the way, calling it 'pickup' is already one step in the wrong direction)- many people use it not to enhance their lives, but to define their lives. And that makes them weird.
Originally posted by Tyler Durden on mASF. "Why u should ignore lifestyle & be a social robot" Link not available.
<TylerDurden> wrote in message
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> First of all, being a social robot is cool. I like being a social robot.
> It's
> fun. So **** Y'ALL.
>
> Second, chances are if you're reading this site, your game ain't that
> great.
> And if your game ain't that great, the missing piece AIN'T LIFESTYLE. The
> missing piece is GAME.
>
> You think you need some ELABORATE LIFESTYLE to PULL A CHICK?! LOL..
>
> This **** isn't entertaining the Queen.. Cummon!
>
> Newsflash: I lived in a congested CLOSET with a single mattress in it for
> a
> year, and got laid more than anyone at Project Hollywood for the duration
> of
> the time I was there (unless you count not going out and having sex with
> the
> same girl over and over as getting laid, in which case I did pretty bad.)
>
> And before that - I travelled for a year sleeping on the floors of hotel
> rooms
> that I usually shared with six or eight guys. And you want to know what I
> did
> then? I pulled girls from clubs back to the hotel bathroom (while they
> asked -
> "What are all these guys doing in here?!") and turned on the shower to
> cover
> up the noise and turned the lights off so they would forget they were
> hooking
> up with a guy they just met in a BATHROOM!
>
> Every day I read these guys saying that their missing piece is lifestyle.
> SHUT
> THE **** UP!! The missing piece is YOU SUCK..
>
> Guys might clown me for living ****ty for a year to save money while I
> built a
> business and a skillset. Well, I don't blame them. Because they aren't
> where
> I'm at right now, and they probably never will be. They know they're not
> getting to the level I'm at because they aren't willing to give up the
> comforts
> that I was willing to give up in order to get there. So they'd might as
> well
> find fault in SOMETHING.
>
> I remember living at Project Hollywood, and guys would talk to me about
> LIFESTYLE like "Why do you go out so much?" or "Why not get a girlfriend?"
> or
> "Why hang out with PUAs and not girls?" Like, as if getting an LTR or
> female
> friends was some kind of accomplishment or rocket science that I didn't
> have
> since I was nineteen.
>
> Most of them sat around the house watching movies or playing video games
> or
> sniffing whip-its, or just chilling with the same girl every single day.
> Apparently they had big things on the go, I don't know. I mean really, I
> don't
> know. I didn't see anything come out of it, but it's very possible that
> they
> did.
>
> I just knew one thing: I had MY OWN reasons for being there in the first
> place, and I wasn't going to let peer pressure from guys who had changed
> up
> their plans at the half way mark distract me from following through with
> the
> goals that I'd set for myself (to actualize my potential, by developing
> the
> social skills I was capable of).
>
> In the case of Pro Ho, I was paying more than I could afford to live in
> West
> Hollywood, and I'd made the commitment BEFORE I'd moved in that if I was
> going
> to stretch myself like that then I would work on my skillset EVERY DAY.
>
> Here's why:
>
> I knew I was paying THROUGH THE NOSE to live in an overpriced house in
> West
> Hollywood, two minutes away from the bars. If I want to do something
> OTHER
> than sarge girls in West Hollywood venues, then I'll do it somewhere
> CHEAPER.
> Sure, I met great girls to be in LTRs with (at the end of the lease, I
> picked
> my favourite one and we're still together.) But at that point my outlook
> was,
> "I have the rest of my life to be in an LTR and hang out with
> NON-community
> friends, whereas I've got 12 months to live with PUA wingmen right beside
> the
> hottest clubs in West Hollywood."
>
> Now don't get it confused - lifestyle is the shizzznet. The epiphany that
> lifestyle is more efficient than sarging (IF your game is already tight)
> is
> spot on. Whoever came up with that one was a smart dude (Wait, wasn't I
> one of
> the first dudes to start spreading that out of common sense?! I forgot!)
> When
> you roll out and you've got people coming up on you giving you props and a
> circle of cool guy and girlfriends to draw new girls into that's GREAT.
>
> But guys have the ORDER of how this goes down TWISTED.
>
> When I roll out, I'm not running up on girls like "pump, pump, pump,
> number"
> and jumping to the next girl like a monkey swinging off of branches. I'm
> in
> the club to have a good time, and I'm meeting all sorts of people. I've
> got
> all that lifestyle **** on lock automatically. Is this **** so
> complicated as
> to even need whole posts on it?!
>
> I have more female friends that I could ever keep track of from all the
> sarges
> I did that didn't result in sex. And I've got guy friends as well since
> making
> friends with guys is automatic because of commonalities. I know more
> people in
> any club in Los Angeles than a lot of famous socialites do. I could write
> a
> book on LIFESTYLE. But I never made a CONCIOUS EFFORT do implement it,
> other
> than to be a cool guy and go out and get to know people and going with the
> flow.
>
> Why was I able to do this? BECAUSE OF GAME. If you're a CHODE and you're
> rolling out trying to build this lifestyle, people don't take it
> seriously.
> Nobody wants to hang with chodes, no matter what their lifestyle is. They
> might use them to get into a party, but they're not HANGING with them. So
> that
> wasn't my approach. I built lifestyle AUTOMATICALLY and PROACTIVELY
> through
> the game. It was simple, once I had the base of social skills.
>
> And you know what's cool about it? When I talk to people and they want to
> hang
> out, it's because of ME and MY SOCIAL SKILLS.. Not some lifestyle I built
> to
> make people want to use me for connections. I might build these
> connections
> NATURALLY, but it's on top of what I've already got.. I'm definitely not
> going
> to be one of those guys who can't travel to a different city or country
> and
> can't get meet girls because my crew isn't on hand. That whole philosophy
> is
> BACKWARDS LOOKING. It's REGRESSIVE.
>