"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Dear God, send me a man...
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The Gambler
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Maybe the best thing ever...
VladPatton
Master Don Juan
Haha great!
Purefilth
Master Don Juan
:crackup:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I can actually see the difference between the two. The second girl looks like a fake, stuck up, status-obsessed, *******-loving, ****-like *****, so the guy would be FZ'd for that. Not sure about the first one, though. Could be hit or miss. Leaning more towards miss.
But that's kind of what we were talking about - in regards to fake / skanky looking girls being decent. Not happening. But thats the kind of girl guys complain about, and claim NG's finish last over. Prissy *****es. Though, they also claim to want an NG - despite not actually wanting one, deserving of one, OR being one themselves.
Just my judgemental views. :nono:
But that's kind of what we were talking about - in regards to fake / skanky looking girls being decent. Not happening. But thats the kind of girl guys complain about, and claim NG's finish last over. Prissy *****es. Though, they also claim to want an NG - despite not actually wanting one, deserving of one, OR being one themselves.
Just my judgemental views. :nono: