"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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*** This post is in response to Accension's reply in my journal thread. I was not able to reply in that thread because I reached my post limit. I love this forum, but you guys gotta get rid of that limit.***

----Accension's Reply-------------

You're a 28 year old, unemployed man posting under the alias sosocool with a 'humongous' penis.
You E-mail close.
You've started Pick-Up.

I'll see you at age 30 when you post a thread, "Should I fuc> an escort?"
Sorry, but you need to re-evaluate almost everything unless you're ok with that.

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Dear Accension

Sounds like you're in a foreign land so let me go ahead and give you the
411 on the greatest country in the world, America.

I think a picture speaks louder than words so let me break it down to
you like this...

http://img.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2007/03_02/hefnerG150307_468x544.jpg

that's my man (slang for one coool dude) Hugh Hefner in that pic with
three (not 1... not 2... but 3) twenty somethings ... one on this arm...
one on that arm... you digg (more American Slang for you)

though those aren't his girlfriends anymore... he has new twenty
somethings now LOL!

the best part, there are hundreds (if not thousands or even
millions) of others like him here!

my point? here in "the greatest country in the world" you can be all old and
grey and still have twenty year old bomb shells IN PUBLIC -- and
get this -- and still be RESPECTED and even ADMIRED... yeah, I know, it's
great here.

So to answer your question, YES I'm **TOTALLY** OK with being a 28 year
old man (with a large penis, don't forget) who chases women becuase I LOVE
women and I LOVE sex... and pick up is just ONE way (an awsome and really,
REALLY fun way, might I add) to get me what I want... cuase that's all that
really matters in the end... is making myself HAPPY.

oh and btw, yes I might start a thread about escorts but it won't
be titled what you suggested, it'll say "Here's how I fuvkced this beautiful
woman..learn from my experience...it's free."

don't forget, escorts are women too, and some of them are out of this
world beautiful ... so yeah I might take up the hobby one day... I hear it's
quite exciting.

And before you say escorts are filled with disease and all, spare me the
judgements. You're surely no God to be judging others. They might even
be cleaner than that girl you met at the bar last weekend... how much unprotected
sex did that bitvch have before you stuck your dicck in her and fell in love?

oh and before I forget, DON'T HATE THE PLAYER... HATE THE GAME (I know
I know, you've heard it before, and my guess is, you'll probably hear it
again... get my drift?)

Have a good evening... I'm done with you.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Accension

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Shouldn't you like -- settle down, in a nice, quiet home somewhere?

No, I'm joking.
Simply, you just seem like every other poster here.
You know, the kind that reads, and reads, and reads -- and reads, and.

I really can't get along with your average, forum-bred 'PUA'.
That's all.

You also got the impression I was picking on your age.
Not at all.
Maybe it is I who should re-evaluate you.

Then again, take a look at the front page of DJ Discussion.
Does it not disgust you.
These men were better off without all these grand ideas.

If they just get normal friends, they'd be normal.

I've waded through hordes of the communities shi> to be good and when I see the quality of people's success still no better than it was in their 1000s of posts, you just need patience like you're working with retards or something.

I wish you the best of luck, old man.
 

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Accension said:
Shouldn't you like -- settle down, in a nice, quiet home somewhere?

No, I'm joking.
Simply, you just seem like every other poster here.
You know, the kind that reads, and reads, and reads -- and reads, and.

I really can't get along with your average, forum-bred 'PUA'.
That's all.

You also got the impression I was picking on your age.
Not at all.
Maybe it is I who should re-evaluate you.

Then again, take a look at the front page of DJ Discussion.
Does it not disgust you.
These men were better off without all these grand ideas.

If they just get normal friends, they'd be normal.

I've waded through hordes of the communities shi> to be good and when I see the quality of people's success still no better than it was in their 1000s of posts, you just need patience like you're working with retards or something.

I wish you the best of luck, old man.
Whats with your obsession of criticising people? Really, as I read your posts it seems that your whole mission is to put all the rookies in their place.
Are you short? because you may have a Napoleon complex.
You're one of those people whom this board would do much better without. I know your intention may be to help others, but when you come across as the angry dad who won't put up with immaturity you are only wasting your time because nobody will listen to you. I think some of your posts have a good message but its very sad that the message is often trapped inside a shell of negativity.
 

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r0cky said:
...because you may have a Napoleon complex...
hey I think I have that!

every guy I've gott'en into a fight with has been taller than I.

and I am more likely to fight someone who is taller than me than someone who is not... if they give me a reason of course. With guys who are my height or shorter I feel like defending them for some reason.

I'm 5ft 6in, the same height historians believed Napoleon to be. How's that for serendipity! (I see it as a good thing)
 

Commandante

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sosocool said:
Sounds like you're in a foreign land so let me go ahead and give you the
411 on the greatest country in the world, America.
The question is not whether you are proud of being an american, but is America proud of having you as a citizen? "Your man" Hugh Hefner started his famous business at the age of 27. And what about you?

A foreigner.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Commandante said:
The question is not whether you are proud of being an american, but is America proud of having you as a citizen? "Your man" Hugh Hefner started his famous business at the age of 27. And what about you?

A foreigner.
As a fellow American citizen, I'm definitely not proud of him...it's people who spout bullsh!t and call people out for no reason like that that people think Americans are ignorant and stupid.

Honestly I figured this was a drunk post, because it seems a bit unnecessary...some people here are rude or assume everybody who asks for advice is a complete social retard...get over it. You're not making yourself look better by typing out a new post with multiple paragraphs attacking someone; you shouldn't care what a random dude on the internet thinks about you.
 

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Commandante said:
The question is not whether you are proud of being an american, but is America proud of having you as a citizen? "Your man" Hugh Hefner started his famous business at the age of 27. And what about you?

A foreigner.
Good point Commandante. And the answer to that is probably NO. They would not be proud of having me as an American because to most American's (probably you too, my frustrated friend) I'm what our society calls a womanizer. It won't be until I'm rich or famous that they'll respect me. It's just how it is here and I know that. But guess what? I'm perfectly OK with that cause I could care less if people love me or hate me... besides, I can't make everyone happy... another reason this country is great is because there's so much opinions here. You can be hated by this group (you'd probably be in this one) and loved by another. Life's great here cause I can do what makes me happy, what people think is their problem. If you talk about me, I have the RIGHT to call you out. But even that's fun for me. Another reason it's great here. I can keep going if you'd like?

Take care friend.


Exhumed said:
As a fellow American citizen, I'm definitely not proud of him...it's people who spout bullsh!t and call people out for no reason like that that people think Americans are ignorant and stupid.

Honestly I figured this was a drunk post, because it seems a bit unnecessary...some people here are rude or assume everybody who asks for advice is a complete social retard...get over it. You're not making yourself look better by typing out a new post with multiple paragraphs attacking someone; you shouldn't care what a random dude on the internet thinks about you.
Another sexually frustrated man... when will this epidemic end LOL

You're no America... just because you have citizenship, doesn't make you an American... you're what we call..... Just do me a favor and stay out of my way... when you see me doing what makes me happy.

pursue happiness, and then you become one of us.

oh and btw, those who care enough to call us amazing americans stupid and ignorant, well I can't say cause I honestly don't know who the h@ll they are... too busy pursuing happiness. (getting the picture?)

I'm done with you.
 
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