"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dealing with younger girls..

tomwesten27

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When you want to get a point across to a younger girl that your exclusive with say the 18-23 age range, about her taking FOREVER to get back to you via text or phone, and you express the problem to her, and it literally goes in one ear and out the other, how do you handle it?

I found that bringing up the issue that bothers you over and over doesn't sink in…do you do it back? Stop bringing it up? Tell her off? Whats the best way to get her to realize HEY FIX THIS ISSUE!

???
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Peaks&Valleys

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tomwesten27 said:
When you want to get a point across to a younger girl that your exclusive with say the 18-23 age range, about her taking FOREVER to get back to you via text or phone, and you express the problem to her, and it literally goes in one ear and out the other, how do you handle it?

I found that bringing up the issue that bothers you over and over doesn't sink in…do you do it back? Stop bringing it up? Tell her off? Whats the best way to get her to realize HEY FIX THIS ISSUE!

???
tomwesten27 said:
Stop bringing it up
Edit: I misread your post, now I'm sucked in. Here, I'll give you my 2 cents: So, she's not snap responding to your texts...taking her hunky dory time? "oh, he texted me, well I'll get to him when I get a chance." That's it right?

Well, let me guess...when she does finally respond to your texts you give her a snap response. Yes, you do. You wait around for her a$$ to respond then when she does...... you're there waiting for her.

It's obvious dude. Human nature. If you're always going to be waiting around for her then she has no need to get back to you right away. Telling her about it isn't going to do a damn thing except make you look weak and more like an insecure chick.

Fvck that Sh1t.

Who would you rather be: An insecure chick or a Man?

There. Happy Thanksgiving.
 

sylvester the cat

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tomwesten27 said:
When you want to get a point across to a younger girl that your exclusive with say the 18-23 age range, about her taking FOREVER to get back to you via text or phone, and you express the problem to her, and it literally goes in one ear and out the other, how do you handle it?

I found that bringing up the issue that bothers you over and over doesn't sink in…do you do it back? Stop bringing it up? Tell her off? Whats the best way to get her to realize HEY FIX THIS ISSUE!

???
sounds like you're on the way out, dude..

nagging her is only going to hasten your exit.
 

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My last girl did that. I told her I didn't like it. She did it again....so I ignored her texts and calls for a wholesaler day. Next day I decide to answer her. First thing she says is she's sorry and crying to me. Waaaa waaa....I believe the golden rule applies here. Treat others how u want to be treated. If she's playing games, then she can't be worth ur time and disconnect ASAP....don't bend the rules for a girl ur dating....bend the rules for ur kids or family. Don't stop being the man. Ur not all alone in this world. I believe there's an unspoken code with men. Yea we compete, but when a true man is down, then u will see some brotherly love from all the other pumps. Damn...went on a tangent. I shoulda just said spin more plates. :p
 

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I'd go no contact for a couple days and see if she changes her attitude when you withdraw attention.

As mentioned above it sounds like you're on the way out and letting her know that it bothers you is only going to make it end quicker and make you look like a wuss in her eyes.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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