"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dealing with unwanted attention from trashy and ugly women.

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I ran into an issue recently at a restaurant where I was in line. In front of me I see this in shape and gorgeous looking Italian girl with beautiful long dark hair, get the balls to chat her up. Interaction is going smoothly but then this happens, these two black girls (both overweight, unattractive, young, and trashy as hell) start to intervene. One black girl comes in and starts openly and aggressively hitting on me but I try to ignore them and just chat up the Italian girl. Well things go from bad to worse, these girls start cutting off my conversation with the Italian girl and then if that wasn't enough, they start talking crap to the Italian girl and getting confrontational with her.

Well, then I use the opportunity to pull the Italian girl closer but I think she got a bit scared and just kinda left the restaurant. These two unattractive girls are still talking **** about her so I put my headphones in. Lo and behold, these trashy women start grabbing my arms and feeling on me which is beyond disturbing.

It got so bad to where I was creeped out by it and told them to stop, then one of the girls doesn't stop and I had to pull my arm away. All the while a few guys are looking at me and laughing.

I am on the verge of melting down but I just say to them "look, stop touching me, I don't want you!". The girls use this as attention and then one of the girls kicks me (yes kicks me) and starts to throw a fit.

Then her friend throws the race card saying something like I bet if you was white his ass wouldn't be doing this.

Most of the times, the women who do this are black and unattractive. It cost me a potential lay with a fine italian beauty too.

How do I deal with these kinds of situations and the kind of women in particular?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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mangotot

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That was a funny read, sounds like a real comedy scenario. But sorry to hear this happening to you.
 

guru1000

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Next time, pull out your d*ck and say, "Alright, let's get to work."
 

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Tell them to quit being jealous that you're talking to an actual girl instead of the fat ugly ogres that they are. If they pull the race card, then say "Well look at how trashy you are! All of you are the same, I mean stereotypes exist for a phucking reason! No white girl would do what you two just did!"

Commense to call them the 3 things that you are never EVER supposed to say to a woman, EVER. (In case you didn't know, it's 'fat', 'ugly', and 'b!tch'.)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You shouldve tried to leave the restaurant with the italian ASAP and get somewhere else.
 

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OP "pulled (a complete stranger who was also hot) closer" in line at Arby's??? Lucky she didn't have mace. Never initiate touch. F*ck kino, that's for table dances and second dates.

Is the OP a black man fending off black women to hit on white women?

Otherwise, fending off women is not a bad thing. Handle female rudeness gracefully (Louis/Copeland).
 

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i used to get this a lot , and still do to a degree

suddenly becoming gay is usually your best route

ugly and fat chicks are usually extremely thick skinned and a simple "I'm not interested" won't cut it

you need to destroy all hope in one clean blow
 

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Bingo-Player said:
i used to get this a lot , and still do to a degree

suddenly becoming gay is usually your best route

ugly and fat chicks are usually extremely thick skinned and a simple "I'm not interested" won't cut it

you need to destroy all hope in one clean blow
Yup yup
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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