Thanks to this site, I have improved and grown more then I ever expected. Most of the girls think that I am above their league. I can sense the nervousness that they feel when the talk to me. None but the most hottest of the girls in our college compete with each other for me. But I have a problem, there are some very ugly girls.They think that they can be my gf. I try my best to stay away from them, but somehow they find excuses to talk to me, talking to them is quite tourturing for me. They annoy me very much. No matter what I say to them, they still don't give up. What can I do?:cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss: :cuss:
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Dealing with ugly girls?
- Thread starter Moon Ram
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Juice09
Don Juan
Talk about things that paint a clear picture: I'm not interested in you. Talk about an ex or talk about better looking girls that you prefer.
If they can't take the hint, just tell them to leave you the **** alone, because they are acting like stalkers and disrespecting your space.
Or tell them you're gay.
If they can't take the hint, just tell them to leave you the **** alone, because they are acting like stalkers and disrespecting your space.
Or tell them you're gay.
Don't tell them you're gay you fricking moron, you a homo or something? If you want to get rid of them casually mention how you had crazy sex last night with your GF or something. Or better still, use the ugly girls and have them do something for you- work, errands, money, food, etc.
Juice09
Don Juan
It was a joke. Did I hit a chord? Be careful emotionally overreacting to comments like that, people are gonna think you're unsure about your sexuality.James18 said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I hate Soulja Boy but he did give some good advice...say YAHH!! Trick! YAHH!!
If that fails, mention how much you love Chris Brown and how you support him in his legal troubles.
I've had girls like this annoying me, I just ignore them the best I can and steer them towards other guys. I've also been lucky enough to have some blunt best friends who will straight up tell a girl I'm not interested and will not ever be into her
If that fails, mention how much you love Chris Brown and how you support him in his legal troubles.
I've had girls like this annoying me, I just ignore them the best I can and steer them towards other guys. I've also been lucky enough to have some blunt best friends who will straight up tell a girl I'm not interested and will not ever be into her
Analyzeit
Senior Don Juan
I talk to them hot chicks get jealous if your TALKING to ugly chicks, don't ask me why but they do.
Notice the big talking never do anything more, or more ugly chicks think they have a chance and the hot girls will be like i aint going out with that guy that screwed that ugly chick, sad but i've seen it happen
Just don't let it get any further with them, trust me they won't know how to and if they do you won't let em anyway
Notice the big talking never do anything more, or more ugly chicks think they have a chance and the hot girls will be like i aint going out with that guy that screwed that ugly chick, sad but i've seen it happen
Just don't let it get any further with them, trust me they won't know how to and if they do you won't let em anyway
jeffthechef
Master Don Juan
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it's morally wrong to just ignore someone...especially a friend no matter how unattractive they may be
best thing to do..when they start talking to you, begin to talk about girls you find attractive and asking for their opinion..eventually they'll get the picture that you're not attracted to her...be nice and respectful, other girls may be watching how you treat her
best thing to do..when they start talking to you, begin to talk about girls you find attractive and asking for their opinion..eventually they'll get the picture that you're not attracted to her...be nice and respectful, other girls may be watching how you treat her
Captain Harlock
Senior Don Juan
just play around with the ugly chicks, use them as bait for the hot ones. No one says you have to do them.
jeffthechef said:
Maybe it's semi wrong to straight up ignore them if they are right next to you talking, but in that instance don't say much answer yes or no questions. I have had crazy stalkerish girls calling and texting and following me around...hell yes I'm going to ignore them. Some people shouldn't be fed with responses it only encourages them. If you have to ignore them do it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.