dealing with their stalker ex's

[monster squad]

Great! This is some **** I needed.

Couple months ago I got too drunk and ended up ****ing this "single" mom. I went back a couple times, but realized she was a hoe and bailed. Then I start hearing that she still messes around with the kids dad, along with **** knows who else.

About 3 weeks ago I ran into her at a bar. Later in the night she was outside making out with some guy, and her ex apparently popped up and started threatening this other guy. A week later he was around again, someone pointed him out to me, and he seemed to be trying to stare at me all intimidating like.

Last night he popped up again. This time he built up the courage to come over and confront me. Showed me some video on his cellphone that he claimed was her getting ****ed by some dude. In all honestly, I can only compare this video to an ultrasound. No clue what I was looking at. This guy was like, "Yeah, you can see somebodies *****, but it's not hers. I know what her's looks like. There you can see some guy's ****. There you can make out a guy's face. Looks like it might be you? Do you know know who it is?". I just sat there in disbelief, and straightup told him that I really haven't talked to her since January, didn't want anything to do with her, didn't know who was in the video (he started accusing my friends, which aint cool :nono: ), ect. Then he starts offering me money to tell him who it was. I'm kinda getting shakey by this point, because all I could think was that this guy needed to experience a little of the ol' ultraviolence, but I restrained myself and told him I still had no idea.

He went on to say he was in the bar to check up and see if she was there with anybody, and that he was gonna be in the next day, questioning whether or not she or her friends were gonna be there, blah blah blah. ****ing guy starts giving me a line about how he's only looking out for the wellfair of their son. She seemed like a ****ty parent, but he didn't seem like he'd be any better.

Now my main concerns are that he's gonna try and start **** again, and I'm gonna end up breaking out some old school gangster ****, or that I'm gonna find my car all vandalized one day. In any event, I wish I knew to stay away from this chick back then. Wasn't worth it.

Be careful out there boys.

 

[thederekeffect1]

Tell him that you don't care to get involved in his personal problems and walk away.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Oh that poor guy...

I think the magic words to diffuse his anger would be "I know how you feel, man, I been through that before, women suck" or something to that effect. In a messed-up state like his, he will view people as all good or all bad (worthy of violence).

Give him a piece of paper with "www.sosuave.net" written on it. Tell him it is a web forum where he can learn "how to handle her" or something vague like that.

But whatever you do, remember that the guy is worthy of pity, not anger. He can fight everyone in town, but it won't solve the root of the problem, which is that he is a sad afc.

 

[thederekeffect1]

Give him a piece of paper with "www.sosuave.net" written on it. Tell him it is a web forum where he can learn "how to handle her" or something vague like that.

Yeah, then he can read all about your encounter with his baby's momma! And we'll all sit around a campfire and tell our stories and play drinking games and it'll be a big ole' happy place.

 

[monster squad]

Worthy of pity? **** that ****!

This POS broke into her house, stole her cell-phone, and started calling all the guys on it. I think she's even got a restraining order on him.

I mean yeah, she's a hoe of the highest level, and it's too bad there's a kid involved, but ****ing please!

He better not come anywhere near me again. I won't help clean up the mess.

 

[penkitten]

if for any reason you bump into him again and he starts this crap, tell him that you really dont want to be involved with this because you arent even involved with her.

he seems scary.

 

[flippinfreak]

Aw fuck man, I've been there too

glad the guy finally got what was coming to him, got ganged up by 6 guys who he tried to rough up in one night.

Man, get with an HB9 for one night, and you got a ton of haters on you, the haters are nothing. You get with the HB9 for two nights, and you meet her psycho ex who seems like nothing will stop him short of the hospital or jail... and 20 years thinkin of me in jail ain't going to make him think any clearer(unless I write sorry letters to him)

For some reason, he's just one of those guys I don't want to punch, because I know that they'd get frustrated and try to smash all the windows in my house in, and then beat up my little brother for good measure...

My advice... try to ignore him, AND her, call the cops and be a rat if it makes your mind any more at ease, but I say just stay the fvck away and let her own family deal with the d!ckwad.