"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Dealing With The Haters

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First off we need to define what 'ripped' is,everyone seems to have a different meaning to it.

Yet, my body is surely better than average, since I am 5'9 and 160 lbs and around 13% bodyfat (I'm trying to get to 10 within 3 weeks or so).

I hate to burst your bubble but I was almost at the same spot, 5'8 158lbs and 12-15% bodyfat. Your on the right path without a doubt but I was just like everyone else at pools. Your eating habits are holding you down.

One thing I wanna know: you ripped guys say that girls watch when you pass by because of your muscles.

Who cares about chicks that watch,it could just chance that they look over in your direction = misinterpretation on the posters part assuming they were checking them out. Now it's when they actually approach and harass you is the fun part.

Thus, what I wanna know is: how much are you tall and what's your weight and bodyfat??

5'8,143lbs,7.5% bodyfat(may be less now).

I'm definitely bigger and more ripped than average

Dude around 13% bodyfat isn't ripped. Just eat healthy and you'll shed the weight quick.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blinkwatt said:
Yet, my body is surely better than average, since I am 5'9 and 160 lbs and around 13% bodyfat (I'm trying to get to 10 within 3 weeks or so).

I hate to burst your bubble but I was almost at the same spot, 5'8 158lbs and 12-15% bodyfat. Your on the right path without a doubt but I was just like everyone else at pools. Your eating habits are holding you down.
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Actually you're right: 13% is not ripped but I'm still used to seeing myself pre-bulking when I was at 8%:)

Anyway, about my weight, you have to remember that you're American while I'm Italian. Italians have a frame a lot smaller than Americans, that's why over here I look bigger than your average folk... not A LOT bigger, but my shoulders are definately broader
 
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