Dealing with the girl when she's mad and ready to fight

[Rint]

Wat kind of mind set should i have and how should i deal with my girl when she gets really mad and wants to fight. She's super sensitive and most stuff i say that u can say to any normal person pisses her off. How do i deal with her?

 

[slickaz]

you "but baby i.."
she: "na Fku, i aint yo baby!! and its always about you! huh? i me myself...whatever.."
you: "ok..you sound like an enraged terrorist right now..n i cant get nothin thru this..so im bouncin...give me a call when ur back to normal..peace!"

walk away..put ur phone on silent..let her ring you.

her first call is one of two
1. "You always leave me when im mad!..you dont care about me..i dont even kno if you love me anymore..wtf! kind of selfish sh!t is this..leaving me when im mad and upset..**cry cry cry cry + moan moan b!tch**

2. "come back home we should talk"

number 2 is the best outcome..but that hardly is the case with women nowadays.
if number 1 then you "see again..i cant talk to you when ur yellin at me..im trying to help..if you dont want it its cool call me when u wanna hang out..but if u wanna talk..then lets talk..and let it be a two way conversation..not you scream and me walk out yellin"

your mindset when she is in "rage" mode is be ready to walk away..because if you try and please her and fix things..you'll only ruin it by feeding her thoughts of "im superior and can yell at him, take my frustration out on this m0r0n, he needs me more than i need him" etc..
if you just explain to her calmly that you're not gonna hang around and take that bs..and just walk away..go to the gym or go chill with ur friends..dont hit her up..let her hit u up..simple..thats the mindset..

goodluck..

 

[magickarl]

Distance. As in leave, and ignore her for a little while.

Very calmly tell her: "I need some space until YOU get your head straight. Talk to me when you figure out your anger problem and grow up a little bit."

If shes acting like a child, give her a time out.
That always cuts them at a loss, and they usually come back with an apology.

 

[slaog]

Don't react to her. She wants you to react and feed her anger so don't do it. The best defense is to smile at her and not get caught up in the negative energy.

 

[Rint]

OK when they're mad how do i let them know it's their bad without pissing them off. Cause i hurt this girl and i feel hella bad and she was about to go all out street fighter style on one of my friends and she thinks i'm defending her and ****.