"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dealing with the after effects of seeing multiple women..

Demonicale

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Ok i've found that recently my game has become solid, i'm meeting women and getting alot of sex..blah blah...

Ok what i want to know is how do you guy's deal with seeing the same girl again?.....like when they're sisters,mother,daughter or whatever start giving you **** for messing them around.

Maybe i'm over complicating it...but at the moment i got a lecture about messing this girl around..i said i was'nt and went home with her...now it's even more obvoiuse i am..and i'm worried about getting abuse from her friends and familly etc...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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real2 said:
Clearly you are not in the mind-set of being commited right now. There is no reason to force yourself into that position.

Soo... keep doing what you are doing, until the time is right :up:

Iron-skin got you laid up to now, and will get you through this for sure.

Good luck :up:

Thanks!

Some great advice, just what i wanted to hear :) ... already got another girl lined up for tonight :up:
 

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I gotta give you props. Multiple relationships are tricky and lots of fun. Howd the parents find out about the cheating though?

I have 3 chicks on rotation at the moment, and it's lighthearted fun. But man.. when time comes to settle down with a good one, it might come back to bite in the ass.
 
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