"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Dealing with the after effects of seeing multiple women..

Demonicale

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 7, 2009
Messages
250
Reaction score
9
Location
England
Ok i've found that recently my game has become solid, i'm meeting women and getting alot of sex..blah blah...

Ok what i want to know is how do you guy's deal with seeing the same girl again?.....like when they're sisters,mother,daughter or whatever start giving you **** for messing them around.

Maybe i'm over complicating it...but at the moment i got a lecture about messing this girl around..i said i was'nt and went home with her...now it's even more obvoiuse i am..and i'm worried about getting abuse from her friends and familly etc...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

Demonicale

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 7, 2009
Messages
250
Reaction score
9
Location
England
real2 said:
Clearly you are not in the mind-set of being commited right now. There is no reason to force yourself into that position.

Soo... keep doing what you are doing, until the time is right :up:

Iron-skin got you laid up to now, and will get you through this for sure.

Good luck :up:

Thanks!

Some great advice, just what i wanted to hear :) ... already got another girl lined up for tonight :up:
 

Four_Aces

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 30, 2008
Messages
50
Reaction score
0
I gotta give you props. Multiple relationships are tricky and lots of fun. Howd the parents find out about the cheating though?

I have 3 chicks on rotation at the moment, and it's lighthearted fun. But man.. when time comes to settle down with a good one, it might come back to bite in the ass.
 
Top