"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I;ve been using this one recently, "So you say you have a lot of friends... I'd be really interested in meeting all your cute gfs!. I can't wait! When can we do this!" OR better if she's with them start flirting with all of them. If this doesn't get her after you, at least you got to hit on her friends :)

I used this to geta girl chasing me a lil recently. Nothing notable has happened but at least I escaped the friends zone where I was headed.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by everywomanshero
I;ve been using this one recently, "So you say you have a lot of friends... I'd be really interested in meeting all your cute gfs!. I can't wait! When can we do this!" OR better if she's with them start flirting with all of them. If this doesn't get her after you, at least you got to hit on her friends :)

I used this to geta girl chasing me a lil recently. Nothing notable has happened but at least I escaped the friends zone where I was headed.
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WTF ?! .... just blow her off dude ... dont even waste ur breath on the h0 or the friends because birds of a feather flock together ..

Peace out ... H-Town
 
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Originally posted by everywomanshero
I;ve been using this one recently, "So you say you have a lot of friends... I'd be really interested in meeting all your cute gfs!. I can't wait! When can we do this!" OR better if she's with them start flirting with all of them. If this doesn't get her after you, at least you got to hit on her friends :)

I used this to geta girl chasing me a lil recently. Nothing notable has happened but at least I escaped the friends zone where I was headed.
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oh dear, that isnt really hitting on them , its getting you no where.
 
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Only if..

I only do that if they say friends first or something idiotic lile lets go out as friends with her friends or something stupid.

Pretty much I only do that if it's a total lost cause anyway. I personally feel it's better than just running away.

Of course, I suppose one could simply say he wans to circulate, see you later.
 
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sorry i didnt see where you had said that in the post.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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its making progress....but dont waste your time with petty stuff! lol.....use lots of kino my boi.....with her or her friends! it doesnt matter...its just a good way to get in good with the females
 
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