drift king
Master Don Juan
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What is the best way to think about how to deal with constant raised hope then disappointment then hope again when dealing with girls?
for example, i may see a girl go on a date, it goes well (raised hope) then you call again to make new arrangements, she picks up and agrees (more raised hope) then she flakes (disappointment) you try again a week later she picks up again and u make arrangements (raised hope again) then when it comes to confirming on the day you have raised anxiety (disappointment) but then it's unfounded with her showing up.. but as a result date doesn't go that well (disappointment again)
it seems like it's an up and down process how do u keep level headed so u neither get too excited nor disappointed when she either a)doesn't get back to you or b)get excited when she does?
for example, i may see a girl go on a date, it goes well (raised hope) then you call again to make new arrangements, she picks up and agrees (more raised hope) then she flakes (disappointment) you try again a week later she picks up again and u make arrangements (raised hope again) then when it comes to confirming on the day you have raised anxiety (disappointment) but then it's unfounded with her showing up.. but as a result date doesn't go that well (disappointment again)
it seems like it's an up and down process how do u keep level headed so u neither get too excited nor disappointed when she either a)doesn't get back to you or b)get excited when she does?