hey gents,
this could be one of those rare occasions when one of us gets back an HB that has stung us in the past.
i got a coffee date with an HB9 that i have some history with. we dated for a while, i turned AFC, she ditched me. fast forward and a year later we are both single and meeting up again.
first date went well. dinner and a movie at my place. decent conversation, semi- cuddling (her head on my lap) during the movie, but no making out. definitely finished with good vibes although it was not my "A" game.
this next date will make or break it. i'm pretty much on the cusp of AFC'ism and novice DJ'ism, and i wanna make sure i bring the "A" game this time. my goal is obviously to build the attraction and to make her laugh and have fun.
i noticed on the first date that the conversation was a bit shaky, and that i was trying too hard to make it flow and funny.
how do you guys deal with the jitters that result in talking too fast and giving the nervous vibe?
any pointers (no matter how obvious) would be appreciated. i've read the DJ bible and stuff but some reminders would be nice.
perhaps my frame is already flawed in that i am prepping and concerned about this, but just saying "f_ck it" and not prepping seems more like a setup for failure.
thanks gents!
this could be one of those rare occasions when one of us gets back an HB that has stung us in the past.
i got a coffee date with an HB9 that i have some history with. we dated for a while, i turned AFC, she ditched me. fast forward and a year later we are both single and meeting up again.
first date went well. dinner and a movie at my place. decent conversation, semi- cuddling (her head on my lap) during the movie, but no making out. definitely finished with good vibes although it was not my "A" game.
this next date will make or break it. i'm pretty much on the cusp of AFC'ism and novice DJ'ism, and i wanna make sure i bring the "A" game this time. my goal is obviously to build the attraction and to make her laugh and have fun.
i noticed on the first date that the conversation was a bit shaky, and that i was trying too hard to make it flow and funny.
how do you guys deal with the jitters that result in talking too fast and giving the nervous vibe?
any pointers (no matter how obvious) would be appreciated. i've read the DJ bible and stuff but some reminders would be nice.
perhaps my frame is already flawed in that i am prepping and concerned about this, but just saying "f_ck it" and not prepping seems more like a setup for failure.
thanks gents!