"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dealing With People Who Are Afraid Of You

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I walked into a class the other day, I was a bit late. The teacher glared at me, looking at me with a squinty eyed look of suspicion, it reeked of fear, or hatred, or envy. I don't know which one or if it was a mix of all three.

I had enrolled in the class a long time ago. "Are you sure you are in the right class?" he asked sarcastically.

Another student walked in 10 minutes after I did and he barely noticed, much less gave her a look of suspicion.

During the class itself the instructor was all right.

Just goes to show you, your looks and body language are very important.

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This happened also at a store I went to. A young short girl was at the counter. I was wearing my sunglasses.

She ALSO DID THE EXACT SAME THING. She eyed me very very nervously out of the corner of her eye. She DEFINITELY did not want me to know she was looking. It was VERY strange. Again, she calmed down after a while after speaking with me, but her initial impression was one of fear, or suspicion, or something. Maybe I should ask her next time, lol.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You are doing something VERY wrong. The only reason anyone should be afraid of you is if you are a hulk. You need to change your demeanor, pronto. Take a good hard look at yourself, and figure out what it is.Or at the least listen to what people are trying to tell you.
 
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Do you look scary? I bet not. There are really people who eye other people badly based on their initial judgment. But just ignore them. If you know you didn't do anything wrong to be afraid of, then you don't have to worry. First impression doesn't always lasts.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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mix_master said:
I walked into a class the other day, I was a bit late. The teacher glared at me, looking at me with a squinty eyed look of suspicion, it reeked of fear, or hatred, or envy. I don't know which one or if it was a mix of all three.

I had enrolled in the class a long time ago. "Are you sure you are in the right class?" he asked sarcastically.

Another student walked in 10 minutes after I did and he barely noticed, much less gave her a look of suspicion.

During the class itself the instructor was all right.

Just goes to show you, your looks and body language are very important.

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This happened also at a store I went to. A young short girl was at the counter. I was wearing my sunglasses.

She ALSO DID THE EXACT SAME THING. She eyed me very very nervously out of the corner of her eye. She DEFINITELY did not want me to know she was looking. It was VERY strange. Again, she calmed down after a while after speaking with me, but her initial impression was one of fear, or suspicion, or something. Maybe I should ask her next time, lol.
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lol...dude........if she's nervous that means she LIKES YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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cletus said:
lol...dude........if she's nervous that means she LIKES YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Don't bother, dude. Check out the list of threads this guy has started.
 
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well are you dark complected and heterosexual...? that combination is not in favour now .. in fact the metrosexual /gay look is a must for dark skinned folks who want to fit in...

dark and straight = criminal
dark and gay = safe
 
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I know initially I intimidate lots of people. when playing flag football I had a guys say look at him, he looks like he wants to kill someone. I have had women tell me I am inimidating. after I have met some of these women they tell me you seem kind of mean at first. then if they are cool with me they say its different. when I am out I have many guys talk to me almost like they think I am cool and want to be my friend. maybe its just the way I look and act. I met this one girl one night and hit it that night. she ended up being my fwb's. she said I look mean and like I just got out of jail. I am not dirty I am a clean looking well dressed man, but I think this is a part of my problem.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonGorgon said:
sad truth... women are now attracted to feminintity in men...
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You've been smoking some good sh*t.


Yes, women might use a feminine "male" for fun and attention for awhile, but I can guarantee you he isn't getting much on the side and she's probably whoring herself around or looking for another branch to swing.

So when are you going to make that thread about manbags?
 
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Women can be attracted to femininity in men as long as it is counterbalanced with a powerful masculine side. This is the basis of the 'dandy' character Robert Greene talks about. It's the contrast - look at Mystery, I'd stop short of calling him a dandy but the way he makes himself up is effeminate and that's balanced by his physical dominance (6'5 or something?) and his masculine attitude and behaviour.
 
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Alle_Gory said:
You've been smoking some good sh*t.


Yes, women might use a feminine "male" for fun and attention for awhile, but I can guarantee you he isn't getting much on the side and she's probably whoring herself around or looking for another branch to swing.

So when are you going to make that thread about manbags?
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lol.. you have a clue but you dont want it.. so you ignore it and act you you dont have a clue at all... and why are you talking about gay accessories..lol ???
 
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