"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dealing with parents?

Cloudtopsun2100

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I am picking up this HB8 chick from her house for our 2nd date and I was wondering since her parents are kinda protective and will want to see me.... how should I treat them? They are conservative. Also is there one I should talk to more? Just need some input. thanks- I did pick her up for the first date and I could see they saw me as sort of a threat...its always the moms that dislike me....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dukester

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getting in good w/ the parents is a key factor. even if you fall apart w/ the chick, the impression you leave on the parents lasts awhile- esp w/ the mom. cuz the mom will be like- he was such a nice boy, why did you break up w/ him- to her daughter.

acting mature and capable of taking care of their daughter is good. you wanna bs w/ the dad, and "suck-up" to the mom. dont make it obvious tho, and just be yourself
 

Cloudtopsun2100

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thanks for the advice man- I'll be sure to use it
 

wcknightjr

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The key is SMILING when you're talking to the mom, and, I know it sounds strange, but ACT a little submissive towards the dad. This will make both of them see you as less of a threat, and will thus make them less suspicious of you. The last thing a dad wants is to send his daughter out with some ****y punk (in his eyes anyway). You have to use your DJ skills ON the date, but definitely leave them in the car when you go inside to talk to the folks.
 
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