"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Dealing with other guys.

navyseal2101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2007
Messages
554
Reaction score
0
I am a confident and secure guy. Heres where I have problems. The girl im persuing has many others persuing her, but for good reason. Most are total AFC's, but a few actually have game. The fact that they all have a physical advantage over me with them being older and closer to her age, I have to counter with an incredible amount of game. So far its between me and 1 other guy. She is still giving me signs, but he is starting to date her. Im not jealous, as I know I could show her a better time, but at what point should I quit, or shouldnt I and keep persuing her? I could get a date, but would it be worth it or is this the kind of women I should avoid? I feel like we really connect, shes an 8.5 on my scale which is extremely high, and thats with looks and personality. The other problem i've been having is I play it chill and let her strive for my attention and he just gives it to her, do women usually go for the easy way or what? 37 views and nobody knows?
 
Last edited:

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

I.A.F.Y.B.

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 18, 2007
Messages
2,051
Reaction score
21
Location
USA
Just keep playing it cool. You need to show her that your the fun/exciting MAN she is looking for. Let her have fun with the other guy(s). She will start to wonder what your doing and get bored of the other guy(s) showering her with attention and what not and come to you. Or you can step up the kino to show your interests through actions.
 

navyseal2101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2007
Messages
554
Reaction score
0
Yea I was thinking kino b/c she started it already, thanks for the reply after what, 94? thats basicly all I need to know. Thanks again.
 

Stacks Of Terror

Don Juan
Joined
Feb 26, 2007
Messages
77
Reaction score
0
I don't post much but I would say why not turn up the heat and just suddenly go icy on her.
 

navyseal2101

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 25, 2007
Messages
554
Reaction score
0
Hmm, that could work too, actually I think thats what i'm going to do. Thanks Terror.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Top