Dealing with oneits STILL!!!!!!

[Water_Man]

I need some Help getting rid of my oneits. I quit getting to see my oneits back in July. I was told back then give it time try to get with other woman etc. Well here it is 5 months later and I am still in the same boat now as I was back in July. I did follow the advice and met other woman but I just could not even try to date them or anything because I am still so caught up with my oneits.

She was gone for 1 month and all of a sudden she calls me to come see her. I didn't go over though so the next day she comes to my workplace to go to lunch with me and one of her friends, but I hid out so she left. I called her 2 weeks ago and she seemed like she was happy to talk to me but she then got me off the phone and has never called back. I guess some of the problem is all the unanswered questions and doubts that I have about her intentions. I really try to just forget about it and not worry about what her intentions where but I just can't let it go. Can somebody please give me advice on what to do. Thanks

 

[Monkey]

Maybe she wants you back? How did you split up?

 

[DJ_Dork]

she probably wants you back now. HER ACTIONS ARE SPEAKING.. she is visiting you, calling you, etc. IT IS YOUR TURN TO MOVE if you want her back. Test her interest level.. hmm take her to a movie and see if she starts touching you. DO NOT DO ANYTHING TO HER, wait for her to do stuff.

 

[Kodiac]

How did you split up?

& more importantly, WHY did you split up. Usually there is a good reason. Don't live your life in the past. Stop worrying about her and her 'intentions' and start worrying about yourself & how you can change to make YOUR life more enjoyable - cause isn't that the goal of life, to enjoy it ?

The mind is a powerful tool, you are only feel sad & confused because you are LETTING yourself....STOP IT!

Smile, move on.

 

[Legend]

Kodiac hit the nail on the head