"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Dealing with my ex...I'd appreciate some help!

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So I was dating a girl for a few months, it was awesome. Then she had to go travelling for 4 months. We broke it off before she left because she didnt want a man at home to worry about and wanted to see how it went when she came back. Unfortunately just before she left we had a big fall out.
While she was away we didnt have much contact but she told me she didn't want to have anything to do with me again.

She came home about a month ago and had missed me so ended up wanting to see me again. She said she doesnt want to get back together but when we meet up she always acts like we are and obviously still likes me! But in between each time she goes back to telling me she doesnt like me and wants me to leave her alone. She said I'm nice but too clingy (when I know I'm really ****ing not!) She's too stubborn to tell me why shes doing it, why she can't just forget about an argument that happened months ago or what I'm supposed to have done wrong. Its totally confusing and I'm always wondering if its over or if I'll see her again. I want to be with her! Advice on this one would be great...!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Personally I would just move on, this will not end well. I seriously doubt shea going to wake up one day and decode to commit, shell just keep doing this, keep messing with your head, and in the mean time it will probably prevent you from meeting anyone else.
Plus, to be honest, why would you want to be with her anyway? She doesn't know what she wants, she's disrespecting you, and is messing you around, move on and find someone go does want to be with you and doesn't need to decide, I speak from experience here, even if you do get her back, shell end up dumping you again probably.
No contact is the solution here, delete her number, delete her Facebook and make it clear that you want nothing to do with her. See if she thinks you're too clingy then!
 
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she's running game on you

she might be willing to have a relationship with you, but it will be on her terms, not yours

start over with another girl
 
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How old is she? If she's young then she's just mucking you around - move on.

If she's older then - she's still mucking you around, it's just the reasons might be more complicated. Move on.
 
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