"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Dealing with Mortality

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How do you deal with the fact that someday you are going to die?

Anybody has any philosophies or beliefs other then Heaven/Hell that if you take a certain risk your life could end? should you even be thinking about death?

If you had or will have a certain decision to make that might put your life at risk, how did you or would you find the courage to do so knowing there might be a terrible outcome?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hot Ice

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I thought about this last weekend.
I'm going to die.

I don't know why, but I feel nothing really, then I get a huge grin on my face.
 

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Im at the age where death is a thing only heard of in movies and on the news.

It doesnt even exist to me... its so wierd.

For instance, ive had a few people ive known die and it just seems so surreal, like they didnt die or something.


I know im going to die someday, hopefully not soon... but i know that when i do die i will be able to say "i had a good life" regardless of all the rest of the bullsh1t i will be able to die and move on to the next level of transcient mackin.
 

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Im like 5'9 or so but i FEEL tall.... maybe thats because my parents are both short, my mom is like 5'1 tops and my dad is like 5'8.

I honestly dont think im done growing though, i hear you stop at around age 22....

Anyway 5'7 isnt that bad, i mean tom cruise is like 5'8,, but then again that IS tom cruise master ultra pimp brainwashed by the forces of scientology but still mad DJ masquerade eyes white shut style with a bird mask.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hot Ice

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Originally posted by Julian
Im like 5'9 or so but i FEEL tall.... maybe thats because my parents are both short, my mom is like 5'1 tops and my dad is like 5'8.

I honestly dont think im done growing though, i hear you stop at around age 22....

Anyway 5'7 isnt that bad, i mean tom cruise is like 5'8,, but then again that IS tom cruise master ultra pimp brainwashed by the forces of scientology but still mad DJ masquerade eyes white shut style with a bird mask.
Off-topic a LITTLE? :D
 

Engetsu

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Off-topic a LITTLE? :D
LOL Seriously, where the hell did that come from?

Anyways, getting back on topic... Why do you even think about death? Dude are you 60 or something? Of the thousands of millions of things that you can do or think right now, why point out that little detail that's going to happen someday and that you'll have plenty of time to cope with once you're retired on a gold course in Florida...
 

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regardless of the heaven/hell do they exisit issue...

the actual act of death is referred to as warm, loving and inviting.
people that have near death experiences state this.
they say it takes every single ounce of them to fight the death and come back down to this world.
 

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I want to die for a moment to see what its like. When I was a kid I sometimes wanted to commit suicide while being bored, because I was curious about death.

However I'd still like to see how our civilizations develop for the enxt few thousand years. Cyrogenic deep-freeze, here I come!
 

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However I'd still like to see how our civilizations develop for the enxt few thousand years. Cyrogenic deep-freeze, here I come!
Futurama style, eh? :)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by Hot Ice
Futurama style, eh? :)
It would be strange (although nice in a strange way) to wake up and then hang out with a lobster like creature, a jamican, a hot martian, a hot cyclops, a 160 year old man, and a robot.
 

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after youve eaten as much lsd as i have, you kinda feel like you know what its like and its not half bad :)
 

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im 27 and im going to die. I really dont fear death at all. If there is heaven then thats good for me. If there isnt then i wont be around to care anyway. If i come back as a spirit then i will watch girls change and masterbate. Why worry about something you cant control?
 

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a 160 year old man
When science is able to manipulate and disable the gene that causes the human stop repairing itself (not in the way of growing, but when it starts to cripple and fall apart) people start living way longer.

Being 160 and looking just 30 wouldn't be a miracle then.
 

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I hate dramas, so when I die I wanna disappear all of a sudden.

No "I miss you", no drama.

Like a shooting star! We must be like one, we should shine (while alive) and then disappear in the sky.

What's better than this?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The dead fear death; to learn to die is to be liberated from it. I have no fear of dying. Death is inevitable and could come calling at anytime. The only thing I truly fear is inadequacy. Besides, I know that there is much more to life than the physical world. Don't believe me?--I don't care.:p

Someday, sooner or later I will be dead. I am going to die, you are going to die, and there is nothing unusual about it. Dying is just a part of living. Just accept it and start living... you havn't got much time here to fool around, so start living each day as if it were your last. Someday we will all be old or dead.

Just relax, it isn't as scary as some would have you believe.;)


Originally posted by Blue Phoenix
Like a shooting star! We must be like one, we should shine (while alive) and then disappear in the sky.

What's better than this?

Well said.
 

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we should shine (while alive) and then disappear in the sky.
hmmm.... that could be arranged.
 
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