Dealing with little things that tick girls off

[BvrEngr2006]

Time to time I'm sure we all might do something little and inconsequential that might tick a girl off... and sometimes she'll speak her mind. I suppose this could include insulting a girl, forgetting simple things like opening doors, etc. Something not very similiar but close enough happened to me recently. I'm curious as to how to avoid making something little turn into something huge...

What I would believe to be best is to forget it happened and move on hopefully realizing a way to prevent whatever happened from occuring again. Is this best or should things like this be confronted and dealt with? And what if she pushes the subject and brings it up front?

Jer

 

[Bungo Pony]

I suppose this could include insulting a girl, forgetting simple things like opening doors, etc. Something not very similiar but close enough happened to me recently. I'm curious as to how to avoid making something little turn into something huge...

The best way to deal with something like this is..... do it again on purpose, and make it obvious! In other words, Turn it into something funny, and it'll smooth over in a matter of seconds - unless she's a real pissy bytch.

...and if she EXPECTS you to open a fvcking door for her every time, buy her chocolates every Saturday at 3:00pm, and sit by the phone waiting for her to call at 7:18pm every day, you've spoiled the 5hit out of her, and she no longer has appreciation for it. Routine doesn't go over very well with women. Things that are routine are very boring.

 

[Starman]

True that..this is a power struggle test..if anything make her feel guilty and say "gawd you whine like my grandmother when her medication isnt working"

become her "perfect" guy..and you're out the door

 

[NoMore]

I agree with Starman and BP. I don't think its a good idea to forget about it either. If it bothers her enough, she won't forget about it.