"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dealing with jelious male friends when they approach you

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ok This has been happeing a lot lately, I used to have a problem handling the girls girl friends, but now I am dealing with their, probably chicken **** afc male friends, who just loooooove to get in the way, by either being a total douche about us meeting, or trying to grab me and giving me the whole "Shes not interested" bull**** when their the ones approaching me(one actually grabbed me and made out with me a few seconds after we're done her male friend gives me the whole not interested ****)

What's the deal with these looser ****blockers? And why can't they just drop dead already?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have found that the more you get comfortable with women and increase your women friends you will start to realize just how many afc's are still running around them like I used to be , getting walked all over by women in hopes of getting laid

The good thing is, they are actually helping our cause, becuase they are making us shine by them sucking ass :D
 
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trying to grab me and giving me the whole "Shes not interested" bull**** when their the ones approaching me(one actually grabbed me and made out with me a few seconds after we're done her male friend gives me the whole not interested ****)
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You should probably re-word that. It sounds like some AFC ****blocked you by pulling you aside and started making out with you.

Seriously though it's best to just ignore these guys, or AMOG them.
 
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These guys are actually doing you a favor by trying to come off as "nice" "protective" guys to these girls as they will actually cause women to talk about and want you more. People want what they "shouldn't" have. So the more they'll try to convince these girls not to like you the more they'll wonder about you.

Better to be talked about than not at all.

Just remain unfazed by them and focus on the girl you like. Brush off the orbiters and ignore them. Getting into confrontations with them will only make you seem affected that what they say "might" be true.

People like that can be used to your advantage.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Naughty Ninja said:
These guys are actually doing you a favor by trying to come off as "nice" "protective" guys to these girls as they will actually cause women to talk about and want you more. People want what they "shouldn't" have. So the more they'll try to convince these girls not to like you the more they'll wonder about you.

Better to be talked about than not at all.

Just remain unfazed by them and focus on the girl you like. Brush off the orbiters and ignore them. Getting into confrontations with them will only make you seem affected that what they say "might" be true.

People like that can be used to your advantage.
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^ What he said. Better to be known as some bad ass than nothing at all.

I would also stop referring to these guys as jelious. It sounds like jello or jelly. The correct word is jealous.
 
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SharinganUser said:
You should probably re-word that. It sounds like some AFC ****blocked you by pulling you aside and started making out with you.
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Yeah same here that sounded disgusting. :eek: :eek:

But like others have said you have to realize a fact of life that with success comes haters.

When becoming good with women you not only will get hate from other women (as discussed in this thread) but also afcs, white knights, amogs etc.

You need to get through your mind that NOBODY WANTS YOU BEING SUCCESSFUL WITH WOMEN! (except us here at sosuave and the PUA community of course) :)

Women want to keep their current power structure over men alive while guys will hate you for what you get. Women will see you as a threat while guys instead of asking you "how you do it" will instead hate on you in order to prove in their minds that they're right with their own approach to women (which has failed them).
 
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You definitely shouldnt be making out with these guys. Thats the wrong way to deal with this for sure yo.
 
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Jelious
 
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