"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dealing with jealousy/insecurity

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i know this gets brought up alot.but i just dont know how to get over it.its like everywhere i go,people seem to be with someone.or meeting someone.why am i not? do i not try enough? you know? and its more than being single and everyone else isnt,i mean,i see people moving on and succeeding in life yet i feel held back.thats another thing altogether.wel maybe jealousy is too strong a word,more like,why am i like this? and it is my own fault somewhat for not trying to change/improve things sooner.im just starting to feel that,and it sucks.so what do you do to deal with these feelings when you feel this way?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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some people spend there time thinking about other people, that can be a major problem. worrying about yourself should be the only thing you really should care about
 
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i do worry about myself.thats the thing.its like,why not me? why is this bothering me? its like,whats wrong with me?
 
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OddManOut85 said:
i know this gets brought up alot.but i just dont know how to get over it....
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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