"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dealing with jealous girls?

Pdizzzzzzle

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Allright guys theres this girl Ive been gaming for a while and Ive got her eating out of the palm of my hand. No problems here.

However, theres this new freshman girl who is in love with me(who wouldn't be ;)) So basically she always bugs me, especially when I'm with other girls (its like she hides in the shadows or something and stalks me, SHES ALWAYS THERE.)

Anyway, its kinda messing me up. I made it pretty clear to her that I dont like her, so shes trying to wreck my other relationships.

What should I do?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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jeffthechef

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let her get some on the side secretly hahahahahha
but really...i mean you don't have to avoid her...but i mean...i read a lot of buddhist philosophy books..and in one named "Standards for being a good student and child." it says..do not desert old friends in delight of new ones....although she may not be your friend..perhaps say hi..answer her questions...but don't be yourself..you probably would be unenthusiactic towards her..and eventually she'll give up..she'll realize you really mean you don't like her that way...if it's affecting how you're doing with other girls...well hoenstly i don't see how
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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