Before I post anything, when writing any statements I'm not trying to be ****y so don't perceive it that way. Also, this will probably be a long read but hopefully you can learn from the advice given to me so it should be worth it.
So for those of you who don't know who I am, I'm a junior in High School and I'm usually fine when it comes to girls but I am having some problems. For a very good looking guy (said by many girls) with a confident attitude and a great reputation as a "popular" kid, you might think, what problem could you have? Well, because of a past experience with a girl I had felt so strongly for, I have developed an insecurity within my trust of the girl I am usually "talking to" or dating.
It's not that I get jealous or anything like that but I just wonder, why is she hanging out with him? Are they hooking up? These questions fly through my mind and have ruined so many guaranteed girls. You would think after realizing this is my biggest and one of my only problems of concern that I would face my problem and change. But I don't know, I just always seem to be insecure.
So obviously you must realize by now that there is a situation I'm in. I have starting "talking" to this girl in one of my classes that I had previously (about 2 months) been talking to. The last time me and her were really getting close but I know she is also very popular and so sexy that other guys are hitting her up. But I figured that I am more unique and better looking than any of them and there's no need to worry but whenever I asked what she was up to and she would say "I'm just going out to the club" or "I'm just hanging out with .....(guy)" I'd start thinking again.
Now that me and her are getting close again except this time I haven't verbally expressed my feelings for her directly, I am starting to become a little insecure. I was just texting her when she was saying she was just hanging out with .... (some kid I don't even know). Then after a few texts she didn't text me back. Now I'm not complaining about her not texting me back because I do that to her and she even tried calling me a few times yesterday but my house has bad connection so I didn't receive the call. I just want you to know my situation so that when you try to offer me advice, which hopefully you do, you can fully understand me and give the best possible insight.
I do not have "one-itis" (don't really like those terms but whatever) for this girl because I know that if I wanted I could get different girls. I actually have 3 that I know want me but I do care for this girl a lot and not just because of how beautiful she is but we have good chemistry and she makes me happy. Any kind of advice is accepted and I usually try to respond to any other threads with useful advice so hopefully I can help you in return.
So for those of you who don't know who I am, I'm a junior in High School and I'm usually fine when it comes to girls but I am having some problems. For a very good looking guy (said by many girls) with a confident attitude and a great reputation as a "popular" kid, you might think, what problem could you have? Well, because of a past experience with a girl I had felt so strongly for, I have developed an insecurity within my trust of the girl I am usually "talking to" or dating.
It's not that I get jealous or anything like that but I just wonder, why is she hanging out with him? Are they hooking up? These questions fly through my mind and have ruined so many guaranteed girls. You would think after realizing this is my biggest and one of my only problems of concern that I would face my problem and change. But I don't know, I just always seem to be insecure.
So obviously you must realize by now that there is a situation I'm in. I have starting "talking" to this girl in one of my classes that I had previously (about 2 months) been talking to. The last time me and her were really getting close but I know she is also very popular and so sexy that other guys are hitting her up. But I figured that I am more unique and better looking than any of them and there's no need to worry but whenever I asked what she was up to and she would say "I'm just going out to the club" or "I'm just hanging out with .....(guy)" I'd start thinking again.
Now that me and her are getting close again except this time I haven't verbally expressed my feelings for her directly, I am starting to become a little insecure. I was just texting her when she was saying she was just hanging out with .... (some kid I don't even know). Then after a few texts she didn't text me back. Now I'm not complaining about her not texting me back because I do that to her and she even tried calling me a few times yesterday but my house has bad connection so I didn't receive the call. I just want you to know my situation so that when you try to offer me advice, which hopefully you do, you can fully understand me and give the best possible insight.
I do not have "one-itis" (don't really like those terms but whatever) for this girl because I know that if I wanted I could get different girls. I actually have 3 that I know want me but I do care for this girl a lot and not just because of how beautiful she is but we have good chemistry and she makes me happy. Any kind of advice is accepted and I usually try to respond to any other threads with useful advice so hopefully I can help you in return.
