I have this friend who I have no interest in dating frankly because I think she’s not gf material. Very materialistic and I think she’s stubborn. We don’t hang out too often. Here and there usually with other friends however if we’re ever out drinking I find myself flirting with her. She reciprocates Complimenting me on my looks, touching my arms (I workout). However nothing comes from it. I’d like for something to happen but how in the world should I approach this? I feel there’s mutual interest there but I dobut it’s as easy as just being candid with her asking to be friends with benefits. What do you guys think?
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Thatfeel21
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Hit her up on some fluff talk randomly one day, then casually invite her out 1 on 1. NO friends. Escalate from there. Who knows, she could be an undercover f buddy.
Isolate. Got it. However it’s the getting her 1 on 1 that I’m wondering about. Because I have tried once or twice already. The last time I actually THOUGHT it was a one on one thing and as I’m waiting at the bar and grill she texts to get a table for 5. I was taken aback by that.
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What’s this table for 5 crap? Was your stable of observers increasing from just a female roommate?
Something very wrong with the way you’re operating here. Grow a pair and text back that you only asked ‘her’ out.
I assume you’re a man, so Lead…
If you don’t you’re only a doormat.
Something very wrong with the way you’re operating here. Grow a pair and text back that you only asked ‘her’ out.
I assume you’re a man, so Lead…
If you don’t you’re only a doormat.
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Haha. Na different girl, different situation. With that said, the other 3 people who went were 2 mutual friends and another person. Can’t exactly tell her no when I know them too.
Yes you can. Introduce the word No to your vocabulary.
Not in that situation. She did it to where I had already gotten ready and was on the way. I wasn’t about to cancel just because more people were going. You saying me telling her no would’ve benefited me? I think it would’ve made me look like a cry baby beta.
I hear what you’re saying though. And I appreciate your feedback. But maybe in a different situation.
Continue your life as a doormat then, but don’t whine about your no sex results on a mens forum.
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