"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dealing with highly extroverted hoes

Bossman90

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We all the know the type. The really pretty attention ***** that has over 3k friends on fb, that go out every damn day of the week. What is a good way to date these hoes without having to deal with her bull**** of needing to go out all the damn time?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Gambler

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Bossman90 said:
We all the know the type. The really pretty attention ***** that has over 3k friends on fb, that go out every damn day of the week. What is a good way to date these hoes without having to deal with her bull**** of needing to go out all the damn time?
Good luck with that.... I don't mind being a little flexible here and there, as long as she's also willing to be flexible. But when someone's THAT extreme, it falls under the category of trying to change a zebra's stripes. No thanks.
 

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The Gambler said:
Good luck with that.... I don't mind being a little flexible here and there, as long as she's also willing to be flexible. But when someone's THAT extreme, it falls under the category of trying to change a zebra's stripes. No thanks.
This. It's really not worth the effort, and nothing comes easy with these types - unless they "want" it. And you'll be hearing "I want" enough times to "want" to throw yourself off a cliff. They have way too many options, get too much attention, have too large of an ego, and are conceited to the point of narcissism. It's not worth bothering, IME. They expect way too much, can never be satisfied, dont give for ****, act like they own the world, view people as disposable objects, are ALWAYS fooling around with someone. They drive you literally insane with their constant demands and entitlements, and "me me me" attitude, and their stupid, petty, bull**** drama that surrounds their lives.

These are the meet up, hit it and quit it types. Nothing more.
 

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Bossman90 said:
We all the know the type. The really pretty attention ***** that has over 3k friends on fb, that go out every damn day of the week. What is a good way to date these hoes without having to deal with her bull**** of needing to go out all the damn time?

i think you are supposed to ignore this level of subhuman
 

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There's nothing more unattractive than these types of girls. The ones that take the rough roads because the smooth ones give them no drama. As soon as I find out they have 7,000 FB friends, 47 girlfriends, 76 exes and 61 cousins and she's all about their huge fake-as-fųck family, it's like they rip their face off and Satan and hell fire emerges.

No thanks, I like a quiet life.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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These girls weren't meant for you to date them. There meant for you to screw them and dump them.
 
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