"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dealing with highly extroverted hoes

Bossman90

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We all the know the type. The really pretty attention ***** that has over 3k friends on fb, that go out every damn day of the week. What is a good way to date these hoes without having to deal with her bull**** of needing to go out all the damn time?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Gambler

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Bossman90 said:
We all the know the type. The really pretty attention ***** that has over 3k friends on fb, that go out every damn day of the week. What is a good way to date these hoes without having to deal with her bull**** of needing to go out all the damn time?
Good luck with that.... I don't mind being a little flexible here and there, as long as she's also willing to be flexible. But when someone's THAT extreme, it falls under the category of trying to change a zebra's stripes. No thanks.
 

floydb25

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The Gambler said:
Good luck with that.... I don't mind being a little flexible here and there, as long as she's also willing to be flexible. But when someone's THAT extreme, it falls under the category of trying to change a zebra's stripes. No thanks.
This. It's really not worth the effort, and nothing comes easy with these types - unless they "want" it. And you'll be hearing "I want" enough times to "want" to throw yourself off a cliff. They have way too many options, get too much attention, have too large of an ego, and are conceited to the point of narcissism. It's not worth bothering, IME. They expect way too much, can never be satisfied, dont give for ****, act like they own the world, view people as disposable objects, are ALWAYS fooling around with someone. They drive you literally insane with their constant demands and entitlements, and "me me me" attitude, and their stupid, petty, bull**** drama that surrounds their lives.

These are the meet up, hit it and quit it types. Nothing more.
 

foreverAFC

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Bossman90 said:
We all the know the type. The really pretty attention ***** that has over 3k friends on fb, that go out every damn day of the week. What is a good way to date these hoes without having to deal with her bull**** of needing to go out all the damn time?

i think you are supposed to ignore this level of subhuman
 

VladPatton

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There's nothing more unattractive than these types of girls. The ones that take the rough roads because the smooth ones give them no drama. As soon as I find out they have 7,000 FB friends, 47 girlfriends, 76 exes and 61 cousins and she's all about their huge fake-as-fųck family, it's like they rip their face off and Satan and hell fire emerges.

No thanks, I like a quiet life.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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These girls weren't meant for you to date them. There meant for you to screw them and dump them.
 
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