"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dealing with her old Ex who wants to be "friends".

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Okay the dude did hook up with my girl years ago got a few dates made out with her and then they stopped talking, he's just got back in touch with her and wants to be friends with her.

I'm stumped as to what I should do, part of me wants to tell the guy to get a life and fvck off and if he doesnt listen beat him up. And the other part wants me to play it cool but I hate how he's txting her all day long.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TheOnE111

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just let it be, he is your mate and all but i mean come on. You dont need to worry about such things do you?
 
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Does she reciprocate, or is it just him initiating? Even if she engages, I wouldn't worry too much about this. He just sounds like another orbiter, I'm sure she has a few. Texting all day long isn't exactly the fast track into her pants. And the last thing you want to do is show any sign that it's bothering you. Insecurity is not becoming.
 
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typical said:
Okay the dude did hook up with my girl years ago got a few dates made out with her and then they stopped talking, he's just got back in touch with her and wants to be friends with her.
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lol typical women spouting BS and idiotic chumps believing them, just a few dates and a kiss and than they stopped talking just like that eh :crackup: , of course the ***** is going to say that, what else she gonna say, that she sucked the dudes c***, ****ed in the car in the bathroom on the bed and got a load of *** on her face, although thats more likely what happened !!!

typical said:
I'm stumped as to what I should do, part of me wants to tell the guy to get a life and fvck off and if he doesnt listen beat him up. And the other part wants me to play it cool but I hate how he's txting her all day long.
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he wants some p**** thats the only reason hes contacting her, i wouldn't contact some ***** years later just to be friends.
 
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maybe you should just tell her, you don't mind her having friends of either sex, but you find the fact that dude is pressing her in the guise of friendship disrespectful, and you trust she will do the right thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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